so many girls inwere cheated by their b'friends & went pregnant unknowingly

@oarnamav (2708)
India
April 18, 2007 1:17am CST
Then why do girls still belive and trust and love a boyfrind? Why do they take the repeated risk factor on head? Can they not avoid the boyfriend coming close to body atleast? Can it not be a "love" without any body contact? I think it's completly the girl, who can deside the issue whether to get cheated and going unhappy later. What can a boy do if she denies? Am I wrong?
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@lyndee22 (1211)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
Youngsters now a days don't take precautions on the actions they make. They want to experience everything even the forbidden one. Their curiosity speaks for them not minding of the effect. They lack moral discipline. They indulge themselves on earthly calls just to express their love but it's lust they have. Unknown pregnancies had could have been prevented if they have a self respect. Nobody is to blame not even the man because the woman consented it, she never hesitated at first. If body contact is his measurement of love then he is not worthy of love and even respect.
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@oarnamav (2708)
• India
18 Apr 07
You are right, they should have the self respect, true! Quite a matured writing by you. Thanks for the words added in response. All the best from oarnamav.
@lyndee22 (1211)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
thank you.
@mdarma (868)
• Singapore
18 Apr 07
This is a very interesting topic and can have various respond. I believe that most often then not, the young girl goes out with an intention and confidence that nothing will happen to them and they feel that they can control the situation. But unfortunately out there in the open the sharks are very cunning, vicious and exploiting. Eventually, without they knowing they fall victim.
• United States
18 Apr 07
I will be honest, when I first read this I thought it was the most sexest thing I have read to date. But! In the end, you made a good point. Whos fault is it? I personally am not one of those men who do this, moreover, I try to be the loving caring man who gives his woman respect. I am single!! So, is it the womans fault they end up with ediot men who cheat on them, or leave them? Who is to say? We men have our fair share of the deal, as woman. I just wish this didn't exist at all.