Love... What can you do when it does not work?

A friend told me that what i should say to myself is, "It's her (or his in your case) lost not mine." If I think I am good person, there's nothing to feel bad about myself. Move on!

Friend it si just like what i say dont expect too much from another human being. I am sorry that it happenned I too have been there but you know what? You will meet someone who genuinely loves you for who you are and I think you have already done that, right?

when i response to this post,i believe that now you're in love again with another guy and it has been a long time i didn't see you on mylot.even though,i wish you have the greatest time with your lover and happiness forever!

hi lovelydame,first of all thanks for discussion of this topic.Unfulfilled expectations always cause problems. Try this:-"No expectations fewer disappointments!"Its that simple not easy. We often called thingsthat happen that cause disappoints,problems.To avoid disappointments or problems..as Best you can,have no expectations, good or bad.When you have expectations there are never any surprises because outcome is always predictable. Disappoints follows unfulfilled expectations.The predicaments that follow are predictable.If your relationship is not full of surprises it is mostly like boring and may border on being unhealthy.Having healthy needs is a natural and creative attitude to embrace. It is important to allow your love partner the freedom to fulfill your need their own Best way. Finnaly I would like to say,"Problem are not break us.Working together on problems makes us strong". Thanks once again for this discussion and have a happy ,long love life..