Do you cut the crust off your child's sandwiches? seperate foods to not touch?

@juls2me2 (2150)
United States
April 18, 2007 10:42pm CST
I feel doing this only sets the child up for being a picky or particular eater. Don't get me wrong....every once in awhile to have some fun with your kids...yes its a lot of fun to make designs or shapes. My husband was raised having the crusts cutoff and that was the only way he'd eat a sandwich I made him when we first got married. Finally, I had to tell him to ask his Mother to do it for him or eat it like a big boy. Hated to do it, but come on! There is nothing wrong with the crust of the breads. Couldn't get him passed the seperation of foods...to this day. That I can tolerate a little more because it does alter the taste of some food when they combine. Like cranberry sauce juice near the mashed potatoes. To me, the food all goes to the same place so if I get a pea in my mashed potatoe....whoopie. What's your thoughts?
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@Mamaof2 (574)
• Canada
19 Apr 07
I was very careful when my daughter was young to not make a big deal out of being picky with food. I never cut her crusts off, never made meals just for her ect. She was always given a plate of food at meal time and that was what she ate. I think because I didnt make a big deal out of stuff like that, she has grown to be a great eater!!! I honestly can not think of one thing that she does not like that I have given to her.
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@juls2me2 (2150)
• United States
19 Apr 07
That's great that you did that! I do the same thing for my children. Funny thing is my mom did the same thing when I was growing up, but with the grandkids she tries to please them all and will make different meals for them. I got mad one day at her and had to put my foot down about them eating the same thing...It was starting to cause them to be picky and demanding to me over food. So she does it when I'm not around. Eeeekkk. I have to remind her that she never did that with us kids and there was 5 of us when she was raising us. Her excuse is that's what grandmas are for. Gotta love her!
@Mamaof2 (574)
• Canada
19 Apr 07
lol..Grandmas always do things like that!!! I am trying to pull this off with my son so he wont be so picky. I did at one time try and make the baby something differnt but gets a bit much for the most part. Now he gets what he gets..lol I put the plate in front of him and if he doesnt want it, then thats all he gets. I know it sounds mean, but half of the time he hasnt even tried what is in front of him...so how can he say he doesnt like it. If he is hungry enough, he will at least have a bite...
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@mememama (3076)
• United States
19 Apr 07
My son loves ripping off the crusts and eating it. I haven't ever cut the crusts off. I just slice the sandwich down the middle and let him do whatever he wants with it. I agree, I think it teaches them that the crusts are gross if you cut them off. We also don't separate the foods, he actually likes to mix them himself, like corn into the grilled cheese sandwich.
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@pilbara (1436)
• Australia
19 Apr 07
I agree with you completely that raising people in this way is more likely to make them fussy. There is nothing wrong with eating crusts, and, if he really didn't like them that much then why couldn't he cut them off himself? As for the food mixing you have picked some good examples. Quite often mashed potato will end up partly on top of some other vegies such as peas, corn or carrots and it doesn't make a difference, but having strongly flavoured foods altering the taste of other foods they touch can be annoying. If you look at it realistically you are using the same set of implements to eat the meal or at least I assume so. So if I have a forkful of potato would I really be getting another fork to eat a mouthful of potato and then a third fork for my steak? It is effectively the same thing.
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@juls2me2 (2150)
• United States
19 Apr 07
That's funny...seperate utensils. I'll have to remember that example for my husband. He's gotten a lot better over the years, but I honestly feel its a psychological thing. Because he'll go to Kentucky fried chicken and buy that dish they have that layers the chicken, potatoes, corn and gravy and eat it just fine. His reasoning is that its made that way and that's why. I tease him sometimes and when something combines when i dish it out...I tell him I made it that way. He smirks...not the same thing. Strange to me, but to each his own.
@Modestah (11179)
• United States
19 Apr 07
when I used to take the crust off (silly me) I would usually not cut it, but peel it off. I found there to be less waste that way. Of course, the chickens or the dogs always loved the crusty treats, but dear daughter had a phobia of it. She has recently had a birthday and is enjoying the responsibilities of her new, more mature age (5) and no longer requests that the crusts be removed. No one in my family seems to have a difficulty with foods intermingling. probably because I tend to make a lot of casseroles and soups, which - of course, are nothing but intermingled foods! However, when I was a child I detested that my foods touch each other and I could be a bit of neurotic about it. My father was quick to tell me that it does not matter what my food looks like on my plate -because it is all going to be mushed up and touching when it gets to my stomach anyhow! sigh, I could not seem to convince him that my stomach did not contain any TASTE BUDS! my dad, such a riot with his sarcastic humor.
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@juls2me2 (2150)
• United States
19 Apr 07
It's interesting that you mention making casseroles, because my older sister used to be very extreme about keeping everything seperate and eating one item at a time until it was completely gone...never mixing anything. As she went through high school and then college majoring in Home Economics, she learned to become a gourmet cook...among other things. She went through periods of creating all kinds of casseroles filled with foods that you wouldn't think would compliment each other....but sure enough it excited the pallet in ways you couldn't imagine. Quite genius if you ask me. She no longer has that problem of keeping things seperate.
@OURDEW (4809)
• United States
19 Apr 07
It doesn't bother me when food gets mixed up. Sometimes I even mix it up. When my son was younger, I use to cut the crust off for him also. When he started getting older I told him if he didn't want to eat the crust, he would have to take it off himself. Guess what? Now he eats the crust. lol.
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@juls2me2 (2150)
• United States
19 Apr 07
That's funny.
@smartmom (826)
• United States
19 Apr 07
Wauw I am amazed, I did not think that habits like that would stick all into adulthood. No, I do not cut the crust of my kids's sandwiches, but I did it when they were just starting to eat, so that they would not choke on a hard crust. My youngest son does not seem to care, but my oldest sometimes cuts the crust of himself. My oldest son (4 1/2) also has an issue with seperating his foods at times, but it is not an everday occasion, and it is only, when it comes to things like meatsauce and spagetti, as he is not a big fan of meat sauce. My youngest son (13 months) actually prefers the food to be mixed together, and we have a much easier time getting him to eat his dinner, if we put some cravy on or some baked beans.
@juls2me2 (2150)
• United States
19 Apr 07
Isn't it funny how kids are so different from each other. My youngest also mixes everything up together. Sometimes he grosses me out, but hey...he's eating the food. He loves to cook and come up with new creations. I tell him he should become a chef. He made this bagel egg sandwich with sausage, egg, and cheese and to top it a scoop of Grape jelly in the middle. He swore up and down that it was awesome. I tried it and to my surprise it was pretty tasty to the pallet.
• United States
22 Apr 07
I'm in total agreement with you. I cut sandwiches in half, kids normally start eating out of the middle--if they are hungry enough, they will eat the crust. No biggie. I can see not wanting sweet touching salty, but corn in one's potatoes (or peas, or whatever) often tastes good. ...of course I lived on corn & instant potatoes my first trip to college as a youngster, lol. Cheap, fast & easy. Lotsa carbs for those all-over-campus treks :D You did the right thing IMO.
• Ireland
19 Apr 07
My mum never cut the crust off our bread for us. There was often a shortage of bread so we were all glad of the crusts. But guess what, now that I am all grown up and married I wouldn't eat a sandwich with the crust on it. I even cut the crust off my toast. As for other foods, I don't mind some vegetables getting mixed up but usually I like to eat them seperately and relish the taste of each one individually.
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@babystar1 (4233)
• United States
20 Apr 07
When my children were young I did cut the crust off there sandwiches, but when they got older I quit. Now they are all grown up and they do not cut the crust off there childrens sandwiches. And as for mixing the food together thats ok with me, it taste better that way.I like mashed potatoes mixed with corn.
@gemini1960 (1161)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
it seems delicious to me, im not a picky eater what my wife cook is i always eat, and thus include my children as well.
@jojogirl (289)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
i really like my bread soft that's why i remove the crust before i take a bite. nobody ever told me to do that, that's what makes me feel good, so i do so.