Your male friend flirting with you..

hunk - guy friend
Philippines
April 20, 2007 11:47am CST
How would you feel? what would be you reaction? Would you stop him? If I'm not with someone, and if I like him, I would allow it. But if I don't have any special feelings towards him, I will tell him up front that he must stop. =)
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8 responses
• United States
20 Apr 07
I have a friend that does that all the time, he doesn't think it is flirting, but it is, I have told him to stop but it only makes him do it more
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• Philippines
21 Apr 07
I have a guy friend who claims the same.. =)
@limcyjain (3523)
• India
20 Apr 07
i am not a women with whom anybody can make advances. These are exclusively my husbands and any move by anyone else would land him in trouble.
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@natalie1981 (2000)
• Singapore
20 Apr 07
I'm usually so dense about these kind of things. I don't know the first thing about flirting and I don't know if soemone's flirting with me until sombody else notices and points it out to me. I honestly would just let it slide because for one, if I call his attention and it turns out that he's not really flirting, just super friendly, then I'll look like a complete moron. Besides, flirting isn't really a bad thing, I would probably stop him if he crosses the line like, if he really makes a move on me.
@ravinskye (8242)
• United States
20 Apr 07
i think it depends how he is flirting i guess. if its harmful playful flirting and he doesn't expect anything to come out of it then its not big deal. now if he's flirting thinking he's going to get some where then for sure i would say stop.
@lucky_witch (2711)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
I agree... if you like him then there is nothing wrong about it...friendship is a good foundation of love... But if you dont have any feelings for him and you think that there is no chance to develope your feelings in to something more... then you should tell him...so not to spoil the friendship...
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• Malaysia
20 Apr 07
if my male friend was flirting with me & i happen to have some feeling towards him, i'll allow it. but if i happen to be in a r/ship & he was doing that i will tell him to stop. on another situation, if he was flirting with me & i didnt have any feelings for him..i wil tell him to stop also. it will feel weird to have a friend who's just strictly a friend do that to me
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@rodeotexas (1154)
• United States
20 Apr 07
Well if you are in a relationship then tell him he needs to quit flirting and just be strictly friends. If you are single and don't want thim to flirt with you then tell him you have no feelings for him other than a friend and you want him to accept that.
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@franziska (411)
• Italy
22 Apr 07
In my life I had many male friends trying to flirt with me but it's a thing that I don't like at all. A friend for me is just a friend, nothing else, so I've always stopped them.