he loves me...he loves me not...

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Love is a very complicated thing...it's about sacrifice, it's about giving, sometimes it's about letting go...I am sure everyone would like to love someone and be loved by that someone...but as i said love is complicated...it's never that easy...love that comes easy just seem to lack something... I am sure almost everyone are in this sort of situation before...you like someone but you are not sure if that someone likes you, so you start to think if you should just give up on that someone. Well, though i have not been in that sort of situation before but i am sure i will be in the future...though i am not experience...i have a lot of my friends experiences... I have a friend (let's call her miss A here) who likes a guy (let's call him guy B, ok..) for as long as almost 10 years...miss A likes guy B since she is 7!! guy B is very nice to her but there's no confirmatory actions that says that guy B likes miss A so miss A don't dare to voice out her love for him, partly because she's afraid that guy B don't like her and that they might not even be friends, partly because she wants the guy to be the one to initiate. what's worse is that in this 10 years, there was two period of time that guy b 'realised' that he like miss A too but he did not voice out his love because he thought his actions were clear enough. But miss A wanted a declaration...then guy B thought that miss A don't like him so he decide to give up!! Fate have given both of them 2 chances but both doesn't have the courage to declare their love for each other. Eventually miss A has a boyfriend after guy B has a girlfriend...but she was not happy, even though her boyfriend is very caring and nice towards her...her mind is occupied by guy B only. This is a very sad ending...hopefully they will both find enough courage to voice out their love (guy B has broken up with his girlfriend 1 year ago and miss A broke up with her boyfriend after they dated for less than 3 months!)...hereby i give them my best wishes!! another of my friend likes this guy since their first meeting..but the guy though very nice to her has never shown any actions that definatly means love...so after sixteen torturing months, my friend decides to give up on the guy...when my friend finally got back with her life and have a very sweet boyfriend...the guy came and voice out his love for her...eventually, the girl decides that the guy still holds an important place in her heart so she told the truth to her boyfriend then and got his blessings...this is a happy ending...but how many love stories have such a happy ending?? I believe that one has to go all out for what he or she wants...so if i do have a guy i like in the future, i will never hesitate to confess my love for him, no matter what his answer would be...i have seem enough of my friends suffering...so i would not like to see myseelf in such a situation. herby i have an advice to guys out there...be DARING...have COURAGE...confess to girls if you do like her...even if she don't accept, you would stil be very good firends...and you will be saving her from unneccessary heart pain if ahe really does love you but doesn't dare to confess to you. Girls out there...if you really really like a guy...you need not confess to him, show your love for him using your actions...if he still don't get the hints...get one of your good friend who's his friend too to help you ask...don't suffer and waste your youth on a guy who might not like you...he might not be your destinated one... Lastly, i give my blessings and best wishes to all those couples out there (you are very fortunate to find your loved one) and to all those who's still at the stage of pondering to confess or not (hope you will have a happy ending)...and to all those who's still single and has no one that you like yet (May you find the destinated one soon).