Where have all the good men gone???

United States
April 21, 2007 8:34pm CST
I am 30 now and have met a lot of men in my life, but they all seem to be the same. There does not seem to be a good mand left out there and men say the same thing about women. I'd like to think that I'm a good woman. I have never cheated on a man, or treated them like dirt. It seems like all men think about is one thing and if they can't get it from you then they can get it elsewhere. Why does life revolve around one thing? I thought that a relationship meant more than just that one thing. Do I have no understanding of the reality of a relationship? It seems that all the good men are gay, dead, or taken. What's the deal?
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@coolmailraj (2461)
• India
22 Apr 07
Well if you are looking for a really good man to be with you here is one (just kiding!). I think the real thing with you is that upto now you have not met someone that's your type (come on don't ask me when will you meet one, who can I tell you that?). So, keep waiting and keep your fingers crossed.
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• United States
22 Apr 07
Oh come one, you gotta know when I'll meet my type of man. LOL!!! I don't know what it is, but I'm not willing to settle either. The one thing that men say that I hate and turns me off the most. "I'm not like other men." Whatever!!! You get to know them and they are exactly like other men in the long run. Thanks for that advice though.
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@kelly60 (4548)
• United States
23 Apr 07
It does seem that way doesn't it? I know that I have found the same thing to be true. I'm sure there are probably one or two out there, but they are so few and far between that it is hard to find them. Just keep looking, and one of these days you may find just what you are looking for.
• United States
23 Apr 07
I have quit looking, one day that man will find me. If it doesn't happen then I can just be the old maid. LOL... I have not really tried to look for a man. I have had offers from guys, but none that are up to my standards. I am sorry, I have two children to think about and, well men just don't seem to have jobs. Alot of them live with their parent's and that's just not what I'm looking for.