Will you contact your friend first if he didn't contact you?

friendship - Friendship
China
April 22, 2007 10:27pm CST
I have many friends and we contact with each other often.But sometimes,some of them don't contact me first.I thought they maybe forget me.So i send a message to them first.As a result,our friendship goes well as before.Later,i know from them the reason why they didn't contact me--they were so busy at that time.I nearly mistook them for not friendly enough.Fortunately,i didn't do any bad things to them and didn't scold them.Friends are always behind you,please trust them.So will you contact your friends first if they don't contact you?
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@natalie1981 (2000)
• Singapore
23 Apr 07
Before, when I was not busy with Law School, I always contacted my friends first and was always initiating that we meet up and hang out. Well, I also felt that I was doing all the contacting and I tried an experiment wherein I didn’t contact them and see if they would contact me. Only a couple initiated. I was hurt at first but then I realized, it really doesn’t matter because whenever I really need someone to hang out with they would always make time for me.
@mypigbox (2245)
• China
23 Apr 07
If i want to do something or get them help,i will comtact them first.and i think they know me very well.It is the important relationship between us.
@letzap519 (408)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
for me it doesn't matter whoever contacts first.. as long as i miss a friend of mine i will be happy to text her or send an e-mail to her...i can also give her ring what matters most you were able to remember your friends....