23 Apr 07
Hello,vanities,if i really love that guy , I will accept his past, i do not mind if he has a child already with another partner, I will marry him. But the situation will be different if I know it after marriage,that mean he is cheating me,so how can i marry with a guy who is dishonest to me?
6 May 07
I would prefer a husband who was starting with a clean slate, which was what I got. He certainly hid his share of pecidillos, but nothing that resulted in a child. If he hd already had a child it wouldn't hve negated a possible marriage, but it wouldn't have been my first choice. His head would be divided between our children and the other child, and whileit might have worked out and blended, it often causes a lot of difficulties that if I could avoid, I would rather avoid.
2 May 07
I dont think i will accept any woman to ahve a child first before marriage, i want a single and a virgin ones .. i really cant comment much on that since what i have experienced was according to my plans and qualities of a woman that i considered to be my wife.
• United States
25 Apr 07
I don't have a problem with people having children before marriage. If I found out after the fact, I would be mad if he hid it. I do know of someone who found out her husband had a child years after they were married. She wasn't mad because he didn't know he was the father, he just got a court order one day for his DNA, for a child that was 10 years old! They were both sad that he didn't get to know his son earlier.