What makes a discussion, a good discussion?

@lifetalk (679)
Pakistan
April 23, 2007 9:04am CST
Well, in your opinion, what do you think makes a good discussion? I'd personally say, anything that has some interest in it, is global, unique. As for the discussion hitting the top list, i guess i need to have more friends. Since the more friends i have, the more chances i have of my discussion getting responses. What about you people?
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@tholitz (1127)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
Maybe something relevant to all, I mean something that will catch the attention of others. Here in mylot what I have noticed is that a good topic does not mean you will have many responses. I have seen that simple and common discussion or topic about everyday life are the one who had many responses. And you're right, maybe if you will have many friends here in mylot, will also corresponds to many responses.
@lifetalk (679)
• Pakistan
24 Apr 07
Yup, you are right. Very right about the fact that common, and at times precise discussions too attract a lot of quality responses!
@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
23 Apr 07
For me it has to give enough information in the discussion to give me something to respond with. One line discussions do not give you anything to sink your teath into. I need one that encourages good, indepth and long responses. I like ones that make me think and consider before responding. Yes now and then the fluff is nice too. Ones that encourage long responses but don't require a lot of thinking. The ones that might deal with movie types. That is usually a no-brainer type that I can give a detailed response to without too much thinking.
@lifetalk (679)
• Pakistan
23 Apr 07
Yup, i agree with you too. However, it's like this, people have their own opinions about what makes a good discussion based on how they take it, what they are interested in. And the points you've made out, i guess, all of them could bring in responses to discussions. Thanks :)
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
23 Apr 07
Well, to me, a Good discussion would be one that really features on a Topic or discussion that is News worthy, and draws a lot of attention, and demand from others. As for the Global part, a lot of times that will help get more Responses sometimes, but then it depends on what it is on. When you can start a Discussion that everyone can Relate too no matter where you are from, and is unique and makes one think about how they want to respond on here, then that is considered a Good discussion. As for a Discussion hitting the Top list, I am not really sure what keeps it on top. I have a lot of Friends but that does not always seem to help me. So sometimes I feel it is the Subject that brings the attention and keeps an item on top. Overall, you just need to experiment some and find out what works best for you, and go from there.
@lifetalk (679)
• Pakistan
23 Apr 07
Yea i guess so. Thanks a lot for responding. The reason i mention friends is that it helps to have friends, cze if they have the notify on, then they are the first ones to know that you've started a discussion, and as soon as it recieves a few responses from them, it hits the popular discussions. And then, the general attraction to the topic keeps it up! Thanks a lot :)
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
I think most people have given some of the best answers to your question here, so I'll just add some of what I know is within what mylot requires us to do so. I think discussions should be well-written, in good manner, informative, interesting and thought-provoking too. It should not be a spam, a copy from other sites, an abuse or an that is not contributive in this community. All in all, it should be based within mylot's guidelines, FAQ's, policies and regulations. That is what I think a discussion, can be considered a good one.
@lifetalk (679)
• Pakistan
24 Apr 07
I totally agree with you raijin. Thanks a lot, your response is appreciated :)
• United States
24 Apr 07
Million dollar question my friend. I wish I knew the answer. I can say this - what makes a good discussion good varies by member. I guess for me I would say a discussion is good if there is some dialouge in it and it remains civil.
@lifetalk (679)
• Pakistan
24 Apr 07
Very true, but i'll still say that having more friends can also be a great great help, specially if most of them have the notify for you turned on!