Wedding day

United States
April 23, 2007 11:29am CST
It is the day before your wedding and you have found out your partner has cheated on you Would you still marry or would you call it off ? Knowing that thousands of dollars were spent on the wedding ?
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4 responses
@OURDEW (4812)
• United States
24 Apr 07
I would postpone it undefinitely. I would have to find out if it is for sure that he cheated. If he did, I don't think I could ever trust him again.
@rodeotexas (1154)
• United States
23 Apr 07
I would at least postpone it. I would not want marry the person until I knew everything that happened, when it happened, and who it was. And maybe even get them tested for STDs.
@Divzs18 (442)
• India
23 Apr 07
Well if I know this, a day before marriage than i guess I would probably have enough time to have a long chat with him over the matter than only I decide about my marriage...I didn't preference to money in front of life as I feel that we can make money but if we lost the interest than their is no worst thing than that. i can't spend my life with a person who is not trust worthy at all and who has lost my trust even before marriage.I feels that any relationship starts with trust and honesty and if u have no faith in a person than u can't lead ur life with him...
• United States
23 Apr 07
I would call it off. Marriage must have trust to be successful. I know if he cheated on me once, I would spend the rest of our time together wondering if he was cheating again, or thinking about cheating, or wanting to cheat. It would drive me crazy. So what if you've spent thousands on the wedding? It's spent whether you marry or not. Either way you won't get it back. But if you do marry and then divorce, you will have to pay thousands more for attorneys and court fees and you stand to lose even more if you live in a community property state.