IT's a YOU(husband) Vs WE(wife and children) relationship.

Thiruvananthapuram, India
April 23, 2007 12:17pm CST
How will you manage things if the situation demands it. Doesn't it show strained familial relationships. the problem probably arises when you do not have enough money to meet the ever increasing family needs. The whole blame i s put on the earning member. tensions galore, he ponders over ...even ending his life in utter dismay.
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@sweetie88 (4559)
• Pakistan
24 Apr 07
Whenever i see this issue, a lesson of mine book comes in mind. It was that there was a faimly in a small village. All faimilies lived happy in that village except that faimly. The basic reason for it was that they had a lot of wishes. Their desires were n't limited & wish to hve all facilites of life made them restless & the home environment was tied. I think that if all members of home thanks to God for what He has blessed them & decide to have only basic needs of life instead of luxurious living style then there'll be love & peace at homes instead of tensions etc.
@gabesmom (1246)
• United States
23 Apr 07
Financial difficulties is one of the common problems encountered by a couple. It's sad if it has to be "solved" by ending one's life. But like any other marital problem, the couple can find ways to remedy the situation. There are government as well as private agencies that can provide some help. Family and friends could also be approached as necessary.
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• India
25 Apr 07
Problems of one nature or the other exist in every family. Take children out of the picture, because they are kids. The problems have to be solved mutually by the husband and the wife by talking with each other and confiding in each other. If things are going wrong, then the situation has to be analyzed. Either the husband or the wife is going wrong about the way they should be confiding in each other and helping each other out.
@KarenO52 (2951)
• United States
24 Apr 07
When times are tough financially, the whole family should get involved to help. Start a garden, or do some odd jobs to make money. Every little bit helps. It shouldn't have to all be on one person. No one should have to feel that bad.
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