IT's a YOU(husband) Vs WE(wife and children) relationship.

Whenever i see this issue, a lesson of mine book comes in mind. It was that there was a faimly in a small village. All faimilies lived happy in that village except that faimly. The basic reason for it was that they had a lot of wishes. Their desires were n't limited & wish to hve all facilites of life made them restless & the home environment was tied. I think that if all members of home thanks to God for what He has blessed them & decide to have only basic needs of life instead of luxurious living style then there'll be love & peace at homes instead of tensions etc.

Financial difficulties is one of the common problems encountered by a couple. It's sad if it has to be "solved" by ending one's life. But like any other marital problem, the couple can find ways to remedy the situation. There are government as well as private agencies that can provide some help. Family and friends could also be approached as necessary.

Problems of one nature or the other exist in every family. Take children out of the picture, because they are kids. The problems have to be solved mutually by the husband and the wife by talking with each other and confiding in each other. If things are going wrong, then the situation has to be analyzed. Either the husband or the wife is going wrong about the way they should be confiding in each other and helping each other out.

When times are tough financially, the whole family should get involved to help. Start a garden, or do some odd jobs to make money. Every little bit helps. It shouldn't have to all be on one person. No one should have to feel that bad.