why do we hate sometimes........
@suneelpednekar (524)
India
April 23, 2007 11:59pm CST
sometimes we dont like people without reason.........we sometimes hate ........some times you cannot stand a person .....why it is so..it happens with me also ...we are not perfect human beings...do this happen with you also
5 responses
@jeweledbluerose (3061)
• United States
24 Apr 07
Sometimes it's not that I don't like them or wish to hate them, but some people carry themselves in a manner that gives off the impression that they aren't someone I would want to be around. Some are rather annoying people and although I can generally ignore them, there are times where these people get on my nerves.
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@only1idea (97)
• Malaysia
24 Apr 07
yes, it does to me too. My guess is that, all of us have our own comfort zone, we have our own principles. We view things differently and we like different things. Some things are attractive for us, and some not. Either one of our "rules" is being violated, then, you'll have negative feelings towards the person or the thing.
example, if i don't like people with black hair, thick lips, talks too much, talks too loud. When we meet one, we'll have negative feelings about the person. eventually we'll hate that person. "with no reason" heheheh...
that's my theory...
cheers...
@suneelpednekar (524)
• India
24 Apr 07
hey.........but you have given the reasons....my friend.....
person who talks too much.tooloud ....etc
@jerritts1mom (816)
• United States
24 Apr 07
I agree completely with your response.We sometimes tend to ignore our own faults in the process which is condesending because I have noticed in my own situations that the very same things that I want to change about myself I find completely and utterly annoying in other people.
@suneelpednekar (524)
• India
24 Apr 07
can you tell me how to improveon this........by keepind your head cool...what do you say
@sweetangie26 (263)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
it happens to me several times and I also don't understand. but maybe one of the reasons why we unintentionally hate someone is that our personalities don't match. we have different points of view and see things differently. and when someone opposes our beliefs, ideas or even traditions, we tend to hate that person.
@lilyoungfella (1196)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
Yea. I agree. I sometimes hate a certain person for no reason at all., I don't really understand.
