Love and attraction

India
April 24, 2007 12:06pm CST
Attraction as per the dictionay meaning is the phenomena which draws towards.men are mostly attracted towards the beauty of ladies.. I here want to state few lines quoted by the famous Marie De Savinge(French Writer)"There is nothing so lovely as to be beautiful.Beauty is a gift of god and we should cherish it"We cherish beauty and want to cherish it forever but is attraction always towards beauty?and does attraction changes to Love .If attraction changes to love then there is every possible chance that attraction may be for many .So, if attraction changes to love then is it possible that a person loves more than one person??
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@gabesmom (1246)
• United States
24 Apr 07
Attraction goes beyond physical beauty. It is true that most of us are attracted to someone or something beautiful but beauty is relative. What may be beautiful to me may not be to you. There are several factors that influence attraction. First is similarity. An individual is more likely to be attracted to someone who has similar physical attributes, similar interests and similar disposition. Some would say that opposites attract. But in the long run, they should find things in common or it would be a very volatile relationship. Next factor is proximity, a lot of people find themselves attracted to neighbors or classmates. Which explains the next factor, familiarity. People tend to develop deeper feelings for a friend or somebody they have known for a while. Attraction then leads to love in this case. But it takes some time for this to happen. Thus, even if one is attracted to several people, love usually develops for just one person.
• India
25 Apr 07
Nice thoughts..i agree with u.thanks for the response