My mother doesn't give mye any privacy!!!!

April 24, 2007 1:56pm CST
Help me!How can I change my mother's opinion?I feel violated and that's why this need too stop.Please advise me!
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@neon2000 (2761)
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
If you are still a minor and still in the care of your mother, do not complain. I guess, it is for your own good too. Mother knows best they said so, don't get upset why you still do not enjoy privacy. It will come to you.
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
How old are you? It seems that your mother is overprotective. You are the apple of her eyes - she feels uncomfortable perhaps is she does not see you. Try to deal with her with the mother-daughter relationship. Then do things to develop her trust in you. She might not be seeing that you are growing or already grown up. She treats you perhaps as if you are still the very cute girl that she cuddles. Parents especially mothers sometimes do not realize that their daughters are already ladies. Relate with her nicely and show her that you are a very responsible daughter so that she will trust you and leave you alone.
• United States
24 Apr 07
You should respect her. She is your mother first of all, and second, I am assuming you are living in her home. You are still very young and she is probably only trying to protect you from making very grave mistakes with your life. When you are 18 and on your own you can do what you want and make your own decisions. I suggest you abide by your mothers rules, show her the respect she deserves and then maybe she will come to trust you more. It doesn't sound as if she does at this point in time. You need to prove to her that she can trust you. Blessings.
@ravinskye (8242)
• United States
24 Apr 07
Well, my daughters are young yet..but when they are teenagers, if i felt the need to invade their privacy it would be because i was scared they were hiding things. How is your mother invading your privacy? When my kids are teens, I hope that they will be nice and respectful, and whlle I know there will be rough patches, I hope to have a good close relationship with them. Maybe thats what your mom wants. Try talking to her and building a close relationship..make her feel comfortable that you aren't doing anything wrong. Try to let her into your life more and she won't feel like barging in on her own.