What do you do when you love a girl but cant say?

April 24, 2007 2:07pm CST
of course there is someone who we love him/her. but there must be a way to say them that we love them i am in that situation now:( i cant say her i love her i am very afraid .. if she goes out with another one i kill myself:(:(:(
2 responses
@zjenikka (292)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
Loving somebody is a great motivation itself for us to grow and move.... Be honest to yourself. Approach her and be honest..... Maybe you can start by building a good friendship with her..
@munhozmib (3853)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
24 Apr 07
Man, I found myself in this situation some days ago. I know how it feels, I love this girl more than my own life. Well, actually, I was afraid of telling her. It'd be crazy, but I had to try... If you feel it is the time, you can use my method: self-promess. Do something like this: "If I don't tell her that I love her tomorrow, I'll pay 1.500 flexions and run xx kilometers". If you don't tell her, you must pay. Well, let me tell you what happened to me when I said that: she got red, I am pretty sure her heart also accelerated. Then, she said she doesn't love me that much, only as a friend. And that's it. It didn't break our friendship. You'll be proud of yourself if you say it. Anyway, make sure you know what to tell her. Think a lot about it, about what are you going to talk. Then, make your own promess, take a deep breath and go for it! Look, I think now I have more chances of staying with her. Somehow, I know she now feels that I am really loving her. And she might give me a chance if I ask. But this is another story, I don't want to risk this one yet. I'll approach her first. Well, good luck! Hope to have helped! Keep me informed, ok?