fare fighting

i used to not fair fight with my husband.lol..i called him every name in the book an throw whatever i had in my hand at him.lol.that was many years ago.now we dont even fight any more since we are older an wiser.i think everyone has call there spouse name one time or another..im just glad those days are over for me.lol now i only call him honey!

I have a very good memory and I make my husband remember every bad thing that he ever done when we are fighting. I am very happy to say the my husband and I do not fight very ofter. I think we have had two fights in my twenty year marriage. I think it is human nature to hurt the one who is hurting you. I am sorry to say that this is not a healthy relationship. I think if you have good communication with your spouse there will be very few fights.

My wife and I rarely argue or fight. But, when we do, we don't really talk down to eachother, we get to the problem at hand. Sometimes, I would just leave the room or she will cry and I would give in.