Have you ever experienced being manipulated?

Philippines
April 24, 2007 9:34pm CST
Have you ever experienced being manipulated? o how i hate being manipulated.. i am being manipulated many times and i really hate it.. i dont know how to fight.. you know what i do? i go to my room and there i cry and pretend that i am not hurt, that after all what she done i am still ok even if its not... i dont know what to do! i cant tell her frankly bout that! im afraid of her and i dont know why!!!! we're just the same! a student! the only difference is shes rich and i am not! she treat me like her maid!
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@tinamwhite (3255)
• United States
25 Apr 07
The best "revenge" here would be success...This girl obviously upsets you because for some reason you think she is better than you...she is NOT! Monetary worth is not personal worth!! And obviously being rich has not bought her any comapssion or manners. Hold your head up high and walk past her like she does not exist.....when she talks "down" to you thank her politely and go on about your business.....Have you ever heard of "killing someone with kindness".....I guarantee she will gain no fun from these activites if she thinks she is not having the desired affect on you.... Do not stoop to her level.....and NEVER LET SOMEONE ELSE DETERMINE THE WAY YOU FEEL ABOUT "YOU"!!!!!!!!!!! There is always someone out there who can only feel good if they are making another feel bad...to not fall into that trap....you are better than that!! I wish you the very best in dealing with this situation and I am sure that many others will disagree with me...but one has to decide to "pick their own battles" and "not let anyone else push you into doing something you are not ready to do". Have a blessed day and "chin up"......Brighter days are coming for you.