How is it to love someone doesn't love you?!

@YazEid (1139)
Philippines
April 25, 2007 8:08am CST
Is it bad when you confess your love for someone who doesn't love you, or at least doesn't love you as smae as you do?? i've never been through that .. if you have would you plz tell!!!
5 responses
@gabesmom (1246)
• United States
25 Apr 07
You would have to express your feelings for someone so that the person can respond to it. You may be surprised with the answer. If the other person doesn't feel the same way you do, then you have to make a choice. You can pursue this person or move on. You have to determine if making him/her fall in love with you is worth your time and effort. You may be successful in winning his/her love or not. The key is knowing when to give up if you don't succeed. But you'll never know if you don't try. You just have to be prepared for the consequences.
@YazEid (1139)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
do u think that love come by forcing ?? can we force others to love us ?? i dont think so , if love didn't grow equally at both sides it wont be a real love ...
@gabesmom (1246)
• United States
25 Apr 07
I didn't say that you have to force another person to love you. The person would more likely hate you for doing that. You can ask the person to go out, spend time together to know each other. Find out what he/she likes. Be a friend. Love doesn't usually just blossom in an instant. It takes time for it to develop.
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
Go for the ones who loves you not only for the one you love, it is never wrong to love a person who belongs to someone else but it is always better to love someone who could love you in return.
@YazEid (1139)
• Philippines
1 May 07
But is it really a choice ?!!
@cutiedhes (508)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
For me I think its alright as long as the person understands you. I have been through that and luckily that person accept me meaning that he allows me to love him and not forcing me to set aside my feelings for him. I know its kinda hard but eventhough its like that, that he can't love me the same as I do but he give me importance. That he showed me how he really appreciate all the love, attention and friendship I am giving to him. In that way I am satisfied and happy.
@scapula (760)
• Jordan
25 Apr 07
It is hard to start relationship from one side, but if it is strong enough it will success. I think if you keep going in this way he will love you at the end, Men just need some care and love, Good luck for you both, I admire people who insist to reach their goals.
• India
25 Apr 07
see if u love a person its better to express it rather feeling bad tht u never said to tht person u love him/her...wat can happen to the maximum he/she wud say no...then u move forward right...:)..so keep urself expressive n open...
@YazEid (1139)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
these are nice words , but do evrey body move forward after being rejected ny the person s/he loves most ?? i dunno , maybe some people would , but there are others who can't tolerate being rejected
• Jordan
25 Apr 07
good 4 u that u never been through that...it's the most depressed thing that u can imagaine..u jst love,dream,and then u c that u were wrong and u r not that one who he want!!!yeah i think u will feel depressed and u will lose ur self confidence!!!