As a mother, will you forgive an infidelity of your husband??

@bornraf (229)
United States
April 25, 2007 10:13am CST
let say you find out your husband cheated once. Will you forgive him? will you get divorced?
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8 responses
@barlow662 (279)
• United States
25 Apr 07
I'd file for a divoce without question! As far as I'm concerned, if he cheated once, he'll do it again and again.
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• United States
25 Apr 07
Sorry about the double post. I didn't think that the first one went through.
@bornraf (229)
• United States
25 Apr 07
your answer is appreciated. Thanks
@Buchi_bulla (8299)
• India
25 Apr 07
I think if physical affair was not there which we can some times come to know like we know where he is and could not have gone any where like that, if only abration was there, and he realised sincerely that he made a mistake, then we can pardone once. Especially in India, this will affect the marriage of children. That is why once it is pardonable. But , this is continued, immediately cut the relationship. Divorce is the resort.
@bornraf (229)
• United States
25 Apr 07
thanks!!!
@mememama (3077)
• United States
25 Apr 07
I wouldn't forgive him, I'd immediately file for divorce. There's no reason to cheat, regardless of my looks or our situation. Marriage is hard, but bringing someone else into it is just horrible and unforgiveable in my book.
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@bornraf (229)
• United States
25 Apr 07
thanks for your answer.
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
Not really...if my hubby cheated on me...i would ask myself first, WHY DID HE CHEAT ON ME? I sure there is a reason behind it and nor for sure, your the reason. Iam saying that maybe you haven't done your part as a wife, making him look for somebody else that does much better than you. It may also be that he cant get enough of one girl a.k.a. PLAYER!. Or he found someone that he feels to be his soulmate and doesn't know how to tell you so he just go on cheating rather than dumping you. There are a lot of reasons...some are lame, some are reasonable...its hard to accept though. Cheat on me once, we can work it out...cheat on me twice, what do you think of me? a FOOL...get lost man!
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@bornraf (229)
• United States
25 Apr 07
nice answer. thanks!
@sunnypub (2130)
• United States
25 Apr 07
I'm with barlow, cheating is a one way ticket to divorce. I would forgive eventually because forgiving is important to my sanity, but I could never stay in a relationship with someone who cheated because the trust would be gone. Even though I could forgive, I don't think I could ever trust the person again.
@bornraf (229)
• United States
25 Apr 07
thanks for your answer!!!!!!
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
I will forgive him, its happen to me once, then i forgive my husband. Then he was making up to me and promise me that it will never happen again.I come with a saying that Love is sweeter the second time around.
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• United States
26 Apr 07
If it where me yes I would leave him and get a divorce. Why? Because the way I see it is if they really love you the way they are suppose to and say they do then they wouldnt want anyone but you and would not cheat and like they say once a cheater always a cheater
@barlow662 (279)
• United States
25 Apr 07
I'd file for divorce that same day! If he does it once, he'll do it again.
@bornraf (229)
• United States
25 Apr 07
ok!!!!!!!!!!!