am i too choosy or picky?

Philippines
April 25, 2007 9:59pm CST
as of now am a lil bit tired of searching, finding, looking for my man. i guess am not into dating more or getting to know a person, am tired you see. when a man would ask my number and he ask it in a way thats boastful, i will give my number but ill give a number thats not mine bwhahahah. when a man will come to me and i can feel that he will talk to me and he doesnt look good (ugly bwhahah), i will go out of the place and do something so he cant come near me anymore bwahahaha. when a man ask for my number and that he is not financially stable, i will give him my number why not but its not my number that i'll give him heheheheh. when a friend introduce to a man whose so boastful like he is telling me, he has a huge house and a lot, a businesses, a bank account which has a million pesos in it whew! it a big turn-off for me. now tell me , am i choosy or picky? or i just havent met my man yet thats why? what do you think?
5 responses
@vamisola (905)
• Australia
26 Apr 07
Hmm...maybe you are...and maybe you haven't really found the guy you really like otherwise you won't say no when they ask your number. i just hope you don't hurt the feelings of those guys you don't like. And don't laugh in front of the not so good-looking guys. Be careful too, just an advice.
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@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
I guess you're searching for a perfect guy, in which I know is very hard to find now these days. Maybe you're to judgmental about them, as the way you explained it, you laugh at them most of the times. Especially when you find try to make a fool out of them, and whenever you found out that they have no money at all. Just pray that someday, you won't meet your match and do those things that you've done to most of the men that came your way..
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
i didnt said am after money because if i am, i'll grab the chance to date those men who are rich, right? i am just thinking about my future. and yeah, i guess youre right. i want a perfect guy which is not around. i mean theres no perfect guy, right?...
@galatea (686)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
Prettylady, there is no perfect guy as there is no perfect gal either. How would you feel if you think that you've finally found the perfect guy but then he calls you off because he says that you're not the perfect gal for him? Money can be acquired later on, what is important are the qualities of that the man has. Do you think he has the drive for life? Is he capable of finding a good and stable means to support you in the future? I know it's hard to find someone to entrust the rest of your life with, I feel the same way, but sometimes we just have to loosen up because maybe he's been there all along, just waiting for us no notice him. Good luck my dear.
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
most of us are choosy to select for the best man in our life we always think that in the future we had that best life because that for lifetime that we cannot regret after all... well they say that we have our life partner so we must wait that!!! you just wait your man my dear friend someday....somehow you will be happy
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
yeah youre right...i want the best for my future family life so i want a man whom i think and feel is best for me but unluckily, i havent meet him yet.
@zjenikka (292)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
it is not being choosy or picky.. people are just careful whom they want to be with..
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
Love wont wait for you forever. if you let everything pass you by, youll never find out how beautiful life can really be. Dont be afraid to get hurt. If you dont risk something, you'll never gain anything.