what do you think of marriage?
By krisrael24
@krisrael24 (62)
Philippines
April 26, 2007 2:37am CST
im 25 and not getting any younger.. im at legal age already and so as my boyfriend. were both stable and we've been engaged fo 2 years now. were thinking of getting married but my sister who had a not successful marriage was telling us not to get married too soon she was even suggesting that why dont we just live in together to get to know each other well.im not against to that idea but i dont believe in that. and i really want to be married in church.. that's our dream, i'll be walking down the aisle while he's in the altar with the priest waiting for me.,. what do you think should we do?
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5 responses
@little_angel (2458)
• Australia
27 Apr 07
If you really trust for love and him then do ahead you can do that, married in church is a very beautiful thing that you can do once in the lifetime.
And always put your marriage in God's hand so you can always have a happy married.
You must have a same principle and commitment with your boyfriend.
Good luck
@patricia24 (568)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
I think if the both of you are ready for the responsibilities and consequences of getting married, dont listen to your sister, its really up for the both of you. Of you love each other and your ready for the big step in your commitment then follow your heart and make sure to understand each other so your marriage will work and will last a lifetime.
@prasad1961 (5597)
• India
26 Apr 07
Its lazy man/woman dream. The life is never should deal with compromised mentality. If you're married, you are forced to choose different way, unlike Independent human. You have to drag the life for other dependents in a compromise selfish manner. Even though I'm married, I hate the dependency system in every person of my family.
@chiquitita (1226)
• Indonesia
26 Apr 07
Whatever you do,just follow what your heart says. Marriages has its ups and downs and will never be free of conflict, but just dont let those stuffs discourage you. I am personally against living together before marriage, and also dont believe it. however it's your choice to take. if you are 100% ready to get married, then go for it. Just dont listen to others, because it's your life, your future, not theirs.
@letzap519 (408)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
it's also one of our dreams that's why me and my boyfriend already talked about and in 2 years time we will be married.. i'm against with living in without marriage or without the blessing from GOD to be honest living in together is against with GOD... good for you coz you believe in marriage.. a covenant for each other and with GOD..
