would you blog your cheating mate on the internet?
By msjigga
@msjigga (864)
United States
April 27, 2007 8:55am CST
i finally got a chance to look at the dont date him site. i discovered my man was posted on this site. i have mixed feeling about this because i have a kid by him and that is the only reason why i try to keep a relationship going. what do you think? would you or have you ever blogede your cheating mate?
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5 responses
@goffclan4 (95)
• United States
30 Apr 07
first of all I am sorry to hear that you found out that your worst fear was true. Second, I dont think that any relationship can be healthy when you are only in it for the child. You want your child to respect both of you and love both of you and if you stay in a rocky relationship, and unhappy than your child will become aware of that and in the end it will be your child that will be unhappy. I think that if you look deep within yourself you will find the true answer you are searching for, or I hope that you do. My thoughts are with you in this testing time in your life.
Allison
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@msjigga (864)
• United States
30 Apr 07
Thanks I know its not healthy for me to try to keep it going but it is hard for me because deep down inside I want it to work so bad because I want my child to have a mom and father in her life. It did not work out between me and 1st daugthers father and the thought of having 2 different fathers somewhat makes me cringe.
@goffclan4 (95)
• United States
30 Apr 07
I have a couple of friends with children from different fathers, and are doing it on there own and doing great. I myself was also raised in a single parent household and yeah sometimes things would be tight, but my mother never let us know that. She was a strong independent woman that raised 3 kids and we would never know that we had a father missing in our lives...she enriched us with love and think that if my father were there , we would have been a lot less happy, and god only knows what else. You girls will have each other and that is a great bond, that no matter what happens they will always have, you should focus on that and how wonderful it is. Not that you have two different fathers, but two wonderful children that need you to be there for them all the time :) There are the most precious things in the world, put all your love and energy towards them and the rewards will be overflowing. :)
@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
27 Apr 07
No one deserves a cheater in their lives. Loose the loser. It isn't good for a child to grow up thinking it is acceptable to cheat. If you child is female she will probably seek out a man like your mate and be hurt in turn and not even know it is wrong. If your child is a son then he will grow up thinking it is okay to cheat and treat women bad. Either way a guy like this is just a negative influence and sometimes kids are better off with just one good parent. Just my thoughts.
@natalie1981 (1995)
• Singapore
15 May 07
Oh, oh, oh, what an interesting site, LOL. If my boyfriend were cheating of me, yes I would definitely blog him. I want everyone to know what a cheater he is and save some other woman from heartache. I agree with the other poster, he would only be a bad influence to your child. You should let your child grow in a positive atmosphere.
@rodeotexas (1153)
• United States
27 Apr 07
I don't think I would do it but I have seen it done before. If your child is the only reason why you are trying to keep the relationship going maybe you should end it. Yes it will be hard on the child but it may be what's best for the both of you.
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@joice86 (1078)
• Philippines
18 May 07
No, I will not blogged that my partner is a cheater. I don't like to tell everyone that he is a cheater. Because I am still hoping that somehow he will change and I don't like to destroy him.
I think it would be better for you not to be with that man if it is only for your child. There are lot of men out there that can love you and will also care for your child so it would be better that as early as now, end your relationship with him.
