help yaar...! i am confused what to do...?

April 27, 2007 10:34am CST
i am liking a girl who is my school friend sister and i am really fearful to tell her my feelings,though she is my good friend,the fear is of losing my friendship with both of them..? please suggest buddy what should i do?
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@unishwetabh (1032)
• India
24 May 07
I say that you go on and tell her about your feelings. After all there is no harm in it. Atleast even if she rejects you which should not happen then also you will know about her feeling for you. You can seek help of your sister also. Try to know what she feels about you.
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@yasaran (788)
• India
13 May 07
I think (if you dont feel bad) drop the idea of love right now in your life. And making a proposal to your friends sister will be a bit clumsy. If you are interested in marrying, I think it would be better to brief your parents and let them do the talks. (i.e. if she is major)
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• India
27 Apr 07
Go and propose first.Then lets see what happens.Don't think to propose .Do it as soon as possible.If you delay it you may be the looser.
• India
12 Jan 08
i did what u suggested man and u know what i had became looser not in front of the person whom i like but also in front of the other friends too.I find myself in a complicated situation and i m really looking forward with get solved as soon as possible.
@amydawn11 (906)
• Canada
27 Apr 07
Thats a hard one. i would say to tell her because what if she likes you too, if you don't say anything then you will never know. Don't have regrets in anything you do. If she doesn't feel the same way then at leaste you told her how you feel. If she doesn't feel the same way tell her that you still hope to be friends with her. It will probably make her feel good to know that you care about her.
• India
4 May 07
thanks for your valuable suggestion and time for me.. will be looking forward to your suggestion.thanks again.
• Philippines
30 May 07
if you are really damn sure about your feelings better tell her and be ready of the risks but if you are unsure about it, think of it first
• India
18 May 07
she is ur friend so u may be knowing her better. i advise u to try to first study her behaviour towards u. if she take u as just a friend then dont tell that you love her straight away. prove that u are not just a friend of her but much more. according to me girls hate to be parteners of those who are inferier to them so make ur self someone special. after u have than that u can give certain clues to her so that she knows that ur are starting to like her. then u can actually tell her obout ur fealings.
@misdss (472)
• India
14 May 07
just go there and propose her, remember everything is fair in love and war.