Help becoming independent

United States
April 27, 2007 11:51am CST
I know a person who is 27 has never had a full time job,doesn't have a high school diploma and has no money or way of getting any,any advice or real help?Everything she wants to do with her life requires money,what doesn't is what I want to know?She has health problems because of the stress of being in a rut she can't get out of,don't know what to do to help,any helpful ideas?I'm serious,no mean spirited answers.
1 response
@TriciaW (2441)
• United States
27 Apr 07
If she has health problems she may qualify for disability. I would have her check with her doctor to see if this is something that can be why she is unable to get out and get work. I would also help her get her GED that may make her feel a bit better. There are lots of little things she can do to start getting money. Cleaning someones house or doing yard work if her medical issues allow that. If not maybe she can do some babysitting after school or on the weekends to earn a little money. Once she starts seeing that with work comes money it may motivate her. Again the first thing I would do is see if the medical issues are disabling her and if so sign her up for social security disablity. Just an fyi it takes three times before they will approve it so she has to keep trying and then will be paid from the first application. I learned that when helping others apply. Good luck!!
• United States
27 Apr 07
She has tried getting those kinds of jobs,had a couple of yard work jobs,can't get babysitting jobs in this day and age,same with house cleaning,what people would trust a stranger anymore? It costs money to get a GED now,and employers still looking for people with a job history so what is the point? Her health problems are stress related,from being stuck at home with no way out.