who will you save first your grandma or your son?

April 27, 2007 9:15pm CST
sometimes in urgency of making decisions, we may fall on the wrong side and live life having setbacks. how can we make right desicision at the right time even in urgency or emergency without reservations? do we need to look upon the person, contemplate and then make decision or just run and save yourself?
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
28 Apr 07
If it was my decision, I would save my son first. Not because I love either one of them any less than the other, but because the grandmother has had a chance to live and experience life, but the son has not. It would definitely be a hard decision, but you could save your grandmother and the next minute she could die from a stress inducing heart attack. The grandmother knows that she is loved and she will understand. The son, however, may not feel loved if he is not chosen. Does this make sense?
• United States
29 Apr 07
That makes every bit of sense. Most grandmothers love their grandkids very much and I don't think a grandmother would want you to save them over their grandchild. They more than likely would even tell you to save their grandchild. That they have lived long and the child needs to have a chance to live. The child needs to have a chance to taste life where as they already have had that chance. If it was my choice I would save my son. I know that that is what my grandmother would want. There is no doubt in my mind about that.
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@Jennifer21 (2476)
• United States
28 Apr 07
Well, I first of all would not save myself before my children or my husband. I am not so sure of my Grandmother, I have a very bad family, it is so messed up. None of us get along due to bad events. But yes, I would definetelly save my children first more then anyone.
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