i love you....goodbye

Philippines
April 27, 2007 9:51pm CST
was there a moment in your life that you let go of that person even if you still love him/her?...me..there was that time that i still love the man but i have to let go of him because i am not happy anymore so i said..."iloveyou..goodbye"
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12 responses
• China
30 Apr 07
i have thought several times that to say goodbye to my boyfriend.because i feel really tied.however,i never did it,because i love him very much,and i know he love me too.maybe after a period,we can deal with all the problems,right?
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
yeah, weigh things out. talk to him about your relationship. express your feelings. and think a lot before making a decision ok. do what you think is best for both of you,,,thanks..goodluck and takecare.
• Australia
30 Apr 07
I did that when i lost my boy friend. I hope i will never do that again. 4 years a go i was fall in love with my boy friend, and then we knew that he's got leukimia, the day he passed away, i just can say i love you and good bye forever, now he is still in my heart and always be. At least i still have a happy moment to remember.
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
oh how sad and am sorry to know that now. am sure he is happy now that he is with our saviour up above. thanks. takecare. GOdbless
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
yEs... I did it with my ex husband... i love my family very much... and as much as possible... I want to raise my kids with the best possible family they could ever have... then when my husband had an affair with another woman for 2 years... (now almost 3 yrs) i did my very best to save my beloved family... but I failed... with great pain in my heart I decided to let go... I let go because the only thing left is marriage... but inside it is empty... I let go because i dont want my kids to think that marriage should be like an empty home....
• Philippines
29 Apr 07
oh sorry to know that. but you just did the right thing and am proud of you you know. being so brave to let go and decided a thing like that. dont worry, i belive everything is happening for a reason and you still have your children right?..reason enough to be happy. takecare and goodluck... Godbless
• India
28 Apr 07
yup i had a moment lik that.,,to be frank i still love her but circumstances made me to leave her and go away..even now i remember her daily..she is one of the best ..i think to leave her was the worst mistake i had ever done in my life
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
if you think you had a big mistake and realized you still love her..why not come back to her?...maybe...its not yet too late. goodluck and takecare.
@Chryssi (828)
• United States
28 Apr 07
I've been there before. And later on, months later, after we broke up, I realized that he never really loved me, and what I felt wasn't really love... I just really cared about the person that he was pretending to be, before his true colors started showing.
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
yeah it is bad ..it is. thanks and takecare
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
yes, this was the time that i am just 13 years ols and i had a puppy love, when my parents know about him, they said to me that im too young to have a boyfriend, my father was very angry at that time and say to me that he will not let me study if i dont obey him. I send a letter to him with the help of my classmate that my parents dont allowing me to see you and to talk to you either, i just said that for me i still love you but i will say goddbye maybe someday if we were just really meant to be, our paths will cross again.
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
gosh..you were just 13years old that time. your parents are right you know and girl, you did the right of following them. the right one will come to you at the right time..goodluck..thanks and takecare
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
good decision because if you continue your relationship with him you will become unhappy.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
30 Apr 07
for me its no. actually i have never been in love. i hacve seen this situation with one of my freinds. He loved the girl very much. but due to some caste and al problem they broke up. so he had to say her this i guess.
@tombiz (2036)
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
Yes, there were a lot of times already that I made this "i love you...goodbye" and I felt like I am Nina singing that song hehehehe. Though it is really painful doing so (especially if there is still a love left), we have to do sometimes because of much bigger considerations in life. Later on, the pain will be gone anyway and we could already find the power to love again somebody. This is all part of growing up in life. letting go and moving on got to be done to make us more happy and stronger in the future. I had done that.
@robert19ph (4577)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
Wow, is that bad? I never been into too much relationship except with my partner now. We do have arguments and fights but we never said goodbye. We sort thing out and I throw away my pride. It helps to maintain the relationship stronger. I have some other relationship but just friends and did not blossom into love.
• Malaysia
28 Apr 07
erm.. i think it happens mostly everytime? you do have to let go the person that you love right? i mean.. there's a saying goes like .. if you love someone.. set her free.. .. if she come back.. she's yours.. don't you believe in it? haha.. i think i won't leave the girl in miserable.. i'll just say.. sorry.. i have to go because i want you to find a better person.. it's very obvious that i can't give you any happiness.. go and find your happiness.. because if you're happy.. i am happy too.. haha =)
@kcrysea (195)
• Philippines
1 May 07
2 years ago, the guy i love so much cheated on me. While we're together he had an affair with another girl and that girl doesnt know about me. I was mad of course but i love him at that time, so much, i dont even remember how stupid ive become bcoz of him. Then he said he love us both... since im that stupid, i accepted that we're 2. bcoz i am expecting that he'll change his mind and eventually choose which he loves most... but nothing happened... Ive decided to move on without him knowing. then we saw each other again and he was crying, bcoz im telling him that i deserve someone better. He cried a lot, that was the first time i saw him cry. i still love him at that time but its over... i justsaid goodbye and wish him luck...