Are my Parents being fair?

It all depends on how your Mum was raised & whether she's religious or if she is just BIG on morals! Some parents are just big on being married before you go ahead & do anything like that. You didn't mention whether your family was religious or not. I do think perhaps your Mum just doesn't wanna deal with the fact your not a child any more but you have to respect her wishes. Does your Mum allow your girlfriend to stay at your place? Or is that a big no no as well? Sorry things are so hard for you but remember, you're an adult at 18 - it's not too far away!

That depends on a lot of things, Jay. I think I would have to consider the age of your girlfriend, whether she was living with her parents and the parents are there all the time whilst you are, for instance. Sixteen is not so great an age but you do need to be allowed to grow up a bit, and learn right from wrong, so providing those two main things, i.e. your girlfriend being at least your age, and the parent thing, then I don't think it would hurt for you to stay the odd night. I think several nights might be out of the question but your parents do need to start giving you a little trust. After all, they taught you right from wrong, and should trust in their abilities here. You need to start having a bit of freedom for when you're out on your own. Maybe sit them down and have a frank chat with them, or get the parents together, so they can get to know each other's rules and expectations. Brightest Blessings, my friend.

itoo have the same problem dude but its my father who dont allow me to do the same , and being 18 i think if they dont allow me think my parents being yours ,a solution to your problem is that you can tell your parents that you going to combine studies to any of your friends thats what i do