is love selfish

@fazelath (1176)
India
May 1, 2007 5:13am CST
when we love some one we want to marry that person,if parents are against but then too we want to marry,just for our happiness can we hurt others,is this not selfishness
1 response
@jolope (988)
• Philippines
1 May 07
i think that we should be an objective person when it comes to these kinds of problems.. we shouldn't consult anyone but God..he is the only one who knows how to end it, and end it with purpose.. we should listen to our parents and listen to the facts around us and listen to what our heart says to.. sometimes we need to get hurt to know that our decision is right..lets not decide on the spot..but give it some time and a lot of prayers..then you'll most probably end up being happy when you get older..^_^