Afraid of commitment???

United States
May 1, 2007 8:59am CST
Why does so many men (women too) claim to want a good woman/man but when they meet someone decent they all of a sudden "dont want to be involved" or they run. I know a few people who has done this several times.
4 responses
@mystery5 (350)
• India
2 May 07
These people simply have their priorities messed up. It is not the commitment, but the responsibilities that they run from. And theirs is clearly not a true love, because they want to have the cake and eat it too - they want to 'concentrate on their career' and have a great love life too. Too often, such cases get messed up later on, because a lack of interest in assuming responsibilites indicates a lack of total commitment to the partner, which leads to problems since marriage is all about changing for the other person
@jason_co (407)
• Philippines
2 May 07
yes, because men dont want to get married at an young age. but sometimes we have to face reality that there are so many men that regreet that the pass out the girl that sometimes come over their lives.
• Philippines
1 May 07
Maybe they're not yet ready maybe emotionally or they have their pending responsibilities in their family.Or maybe they're prioritizing something or they wanted to be ready if something happened.
• Canada
2 May 07
maybe they are afraid that one day they may find a person that is more compatible than the one they have