When the girl of your dreams falls for another man........

Philippines
May 2, 2007 1:41am CST
I have this friend of mine whom I admire very much. The admiration grows into a romantic feeling I feel for her. She doesn't know it but I am already in love with her. I would really like to court her then but I found out that she's in love with another man. It's really painful to see the two of them. What do you think should I do? Do I just have to ignore this feeling I have for her or fight for my love? What do you think?
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6 responses
• Indonesia
2 May 07
its hard situation u have there, in one side its not nice to ruin others people relationship.but i do understand ur feeling.why not try to be her best friend and maybe 1 day you'll know the answer of ur questions
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@fazelath (1176)
• India
2 May 07
i think u just cant see ur love go away with someone,confess her ur feelings,if she excepts u then she is yours,or just let her go,and u will find ur love very soon
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@zjenikka (292)
• Philippines
2 May 07
Being there as her friend is already the perfect love you can show to her...
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@kming52 (280)
• China
2 May 07
a hard decision to make ,i think it is .And when almost three years before,i've met this problem alike as well.I really felt pity to get this feeling.When met with them,i can hardly say anything more.We were very good classmates before,but when i got to know they had been fallen in love with each other,i almost fell in vain.After a period of suffering ,i didn't got any messages from them.I knew i could do nothing more,maybe it is destined.Then time is passing ,i can be just alone till now.I think love and life are both realistic ,sometimes almost.
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@IMHO_Dan (175)
• India
2 May 07
The worst thing u can do in life is not letting the person you love know that u love her.....hmmmm she is in love with some1 already u can still let her know in a very diplomatic way....n b4 that try to understand the depth of their love..... but the best thing to do is forgetting the whole thing abt her in this situation coz it hurts more when the duration of your admiration to her grows is more.....
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• Philippines
29 May 07
I am a lady and it happened to me. I was in love to a friend who is in a relationship with my cousin's best friend What can I do? Its not appropriate for a lady to express love first. So, I have to keep my feelings to myself. To the guys, you may choose to let her know you have feelings for her, yet you respect her relationship with the other guy. You must not court her till she is free. If you are meant to be, destiny will find its way for you...as it did to me. Her girlfriend was the Maid-of-Honor and I was a Bridesmaid on my cousin's wedding. It was during that time I confirmed that their relationship was over. But my romance did not begin there, not after 3 yrs, I guess... I was just surprised that one day, he was starting to send me a rose with lovenotes. But he never knew I loved him first. And this guy became my life-time partner.