how to handle a lover's quarrel???

well i have to admit that there has been some raising voices in our house - mostly doen by me. I tend to do that when I get upset =) However we also always work things out before the day is over and the fighting is very unusual =)

I was actually having a similar discussion with a friend of mine last night. He said that he loves his girlfriend, but they fight a lot. In the end, though, they still love each other. My boyfriend and I can be the same way. We don't fight often, but when we do, it can get somewhat heated. I think the most important thing when you are fighting with your significant other is to remember that even if you are fighting about something (whether it is something major or minor), that you still love that person. Most fights are over insignificant things, in the grand scheme. Just always remember to apologize when you are at fault, and to accept the apology of your significant other if they are at fault. Don't let things simmer unresolved for too long, and remember that there are many reasons why you love that person.