How do i get over my ex-boyfriend?

Nigeria
May 2, 2007 9:06am CST
I left my ex because his parents wanted him for someone else, but after so many years, i still cant forget him and i keep on comparing him with my new bf... just heard he got married last week, i'm so heart broken, what do i do pls?
5 responses
@fazelath (1174)
• India
2 May 07
your boy friend has left u behind and has moved,when he has overcome then why should u think of him,u have a boyfriend leave ur ex boyfriend behind,and be happy with ur current boyfriend,u dont deserve ur ex boyfriend,u deserve some one better,why cry over spilt milk,move ahead in life,
• Philippines
2 May 07
girl, he's gone and you have to face it. sometimes, we have to learn to let go of people who were not meant for us. accept it as a part of God's will. accept too that it cannot be undone. God reserve someone better for you and he will reveal who he is when the right time comes. but you won't see him if you continue to regret the past. the past will only hurt you if you continue to bring it back and refuse to forget about it.
• Philippines
2 May 07
Move on, lower your expectations, and let him go. It will pass. If you don't, you just end up hurting yourself.
• Australia
2 May 07
Hello nkkyluv. You should forgot him, he is not good for you. He can pretend to from his parent. You already have a new boyfriend try to love him, don't you ever compare your boy friend with another gay, you doesn't like it if he did to you right. You already have a better man, love him and never look back. Just keep on focus on your new bf. God bless you
• India
2 May 07
Hi nkkyluv! I have done the same thing too. I left my Boyfriend because i thought that is best for him. But i went into depression afterwards and found myself comparing him with the other guys who dated me. After that i came to a conclusion that he did not deserve me at all because he just went off without even putting much of a fight. And i felt better.