do you think a gay will always be a gay?

Philippines
May 2, 2007 11:38am CST
i have a friend about my age whose trying to be a straight guy since he was inlove with a girl he tried his best to impress the girl and fortunately he succeeded. now he is trying his best to become a straight male he transfer in a diferent school were nobody knows his past in this school no one of his classmates knows he's a gay. until one day his classmates invited him to play basketball, obviously he don't know how to play it so he make an excuse that he have much to do. the next day when their teacher was discussing and fond of telling jokes. he accidentally laughed so loud that he began to sound like a girl:) now he confide to me that he's afraid that he's classmates might find out about his past. i don't know what to say.
2 responses
@m_5ugar (1013)
• Malaysia
3 May 07
it takes time to change. everything needs time. but, how long the duration, the person themselves set the time.
• Philippines
4 May 07
and i hope when the time comes the people will accept them as well don't you think?
@m_5ugar (1013)
• Malaysia
5 May 07
yeah, that is true. when they change, all people around should give him strength and just forget their past. give him courage that can motivated them to stay straight.
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@PsychoDude (2018)
• Netherlands
2 May 07
LOL!! :P I'm a straight guy, but I suck at playing basketball ;). And when laughing out loud no matter which guy you take, they all can end up sounding like girls sometimes :P. And if he likes both guys and girls, he might just be bi. In my opinion he shouldn't even be needing to cover up that he has feelings for guys as well, there is nothing wrong with it. If others would treat him different cause of that, then that's their problem. They are the ones with the issues then not being able to respect people for who they are and let them have their freedom.
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• Philippines
2 May 07
hehehehhe there are instances that his way of laughing shocks his friends and that bothers him he worries that his friends might avoid him and criticize him but you know your right there that it is really their problem