Is it right for a parent to beat a child?

India
May 3, 2007 3:04am CST
Friends, a lot of parents out of a fist of anger probably developed from their own problems in life or may be not wanting to take the child responsibilities beat the child and at times even abandon them. I do not support this activity at all. What do u say? Is it ri9ght for a parent to beat his / her child just for may be a small mistake the kid commits?
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6 responses
@vamisola (905)
• Australia
3 May 07
No, it is not right. But sometimes, it is the way kids learn from their mistake.
• India
3 May 07
Well vamsiolla, u r right to some extent but its only a rare case. Usually, it affect the childs psychology and develops a mental fear, and also leads to depression. The kid would feel scared to discuss his/her life problems with parents.
@vamisola (905)
• Australia
3 May 07
yeah, but beat them not to the extent that will hurt them so much and end up having a psychological prob. just a little apank in their bum. But not hard to hurt them so bad.
@Nardz13 (5055)
• New Zealand
3 May 07
Hi hollowheart, Defiinetly not alright to beat or even harm a child. Some parents lash out, because they either have a problem or an issue they cant deal with, which causes them to blame the innocent defenseless child or they are simply reapeating a violent family cycle, which needs to be broken in a hurry... This is my view anyway
• India
3 May 07
Your view about this issue is highly appreciated. Thanks
@cyrile07 (236)
• Philippines
3 May 07
of course not.. it may be a right to discipline a child but not by beating. if parent dont want a responsibility of raising a kid or just abandon them, then why make one? :) its a very irresponsible thing to do having a kid and then abandon them... i just hope that parents would love their children and learn from mistakes that they have experience as a child :(
• India
3 May 07
You are absolutely right about this.
• Philippines
3 May 07
No parent has any right to beat up a child. If you want to instill obedience and respect in your child do it by telling him that what he did was wrong and the consequences resulting from his wrong doings. Respect begets respect. I myself wouldn't want my own kid to follow me because out of fear of being beaten. Beating a child only results to the battered kid's violent nature when he grows up. Time would come when the battered child would think that it is a normal thing to be beaten up. He in turn would beat up his own kids and the cycle would never stop.
• India
3 May 07
hi thanks for the wonderful response an comment.
@howhigh (757)
• Canada
3 May 07
I think that no parent has such a right it can teach lessons but i think teaching like that only creates more lessons to teach and beating never answers a question it only raises more questions. Children do not decide to be born therefore parents cannot treat them as property ever.
• India
3 May 07
Thanks for the wonderful response dear friend. Infact i feel the mother should try and teach the differences of good and bad for the child to learn and understand. Yes the child ofcourse might make a mistake and scolding the child with a right tone and works is acceptable. I liked ur response. Thanks again.
• China
3 May 07
i agree with you ,if the parents beat the child ,he made a mistake ,a big mistake ,because the "beat"cann't stove the qustions,only the love can save the child.give our child you love.the life will happy !