How important is socialising for your child?

@Nardz13 (5055)
New Zealand
May 3, 2007 4:26am CST
Does your child belong to any social activities,wether it be sport, brownies, boyscouts etc... If so how important is it for your child to be part of a social activity? What are the benefits as they get older?
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@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
3 May 07
My kids are all involved in social activities. One wrestles and plays football, one plays basketball and runs track and my youngest is in gymnastics. To begin at a young age helps them to learn social skills that they are not getting at home. They learn to work as a team. They learn to wait their turn. They learn to interact with other children their own age. As they get older, they become very confident. They are more outgoing. They have positive activities that keep them busy so they don't have as much time to get into trouble.
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@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
6 May 07
Thanks for marking me best response. I do think that kids who are involved with sports and social activities become more outgoing and value themselves.
@Nardz13 (5055)
• New Zealand
4 May 07
Hi sunshine, I strongly agree with what you have said here: : To begin at a young age helps them to learn social skills that they are not getting at home. They learn to work as a team. They learn to wait their turn. They learn to interact with other children their own age. As they get older, they become very confident. They are more outgoing. Exactly, positive activities do help to keep them away from trouble... Awsome post, Thank you...
@mrbranan (1012)
• United States
3 May 07
I think it is very imprortant to socialise your children. The more they get out with other people the more they know how to handle different situations. They will have friends and start being indepentdant. I think all of those things are pluses.
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@Nardz13 (5055)
• New Zealand
4 May 07
Hi mrbranan, I agree, and they are pulses, positive ones. Thanks for your comment, much appreciated...
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
3 May 07
i think socialising is vital for any child. A child learns to become a social being primarilly from his or her interaction with his/ her peer group blessed be
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@Nardz13 (5055)
• New Zealand
3 May 07
Hi Eskarena, I fully agree with that. Thanks for your response... Awsome
@mememama (3076)
• United States
3 May 07
My son and I are in a mommy and me class, they teach him how to take turns doing activities, plus it's great exercise for the both of us. He's not used to being around a lot of people so this has helped. We also go to playgrounds and parks a lot, just to get out of the house.
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@Nardz13 (5055)
• New Zealand
4 May 07
Hey Mememama, Good for you, taking your child to these classes, these activities really help in present times as well as his times ahead. Aswome thanks for your post...
@wolves69 (755)
• United States
3 May 07
Oh geeze are my kids active. Two in Girl Scouts, one in Boy Scouts, one is active in Church activities, and the other two are involved with various sports. We used to joke about parents who push their kids to do too much, but my kids really ask us to do more...not us. I think the socialization is important. It teaches the kids to concentrate, be more tolerable, learn new skills and new ways of thinking and acting. I grew up in a house that actively encouraged NOT to participate in things...namely for fear of getting hurt (physical or mental). As I grew older, it took a lot more effort to be part of a group, or to be proficient at various activities. The more you learn and understand as a kid, the easier it is to cope and handle new situations when you are older.
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@Nardz13 (5055)
• New Zealand
3 May 07
Wow what a handful and good on the lot of them, these kids wont have any anti social problems. I totally agree with what you have said, and good for yous on recognising this as parents, rather then them experiencing how you grew up and that it took alot more effort to participate in group things... I personally think anti socialism with children creates the confidence barrier... Thanks for your comment... Fantastic!!!