Love

India
May 3, 2007 11:20pm CST
What is love?? after love merraige why husban and wife not satisfied for each other
7 responses
@mystery5 (351)
• India
4 May 07
What made you think that after love marriage, people are not satisfied with each other? I have seen dozens of love marriages, and also many many arranged marriages which were total disasters, with the husbands going ahead and having second wives, and/ or the wives having extra-marital affairs. It is only if both people got married in a fit of blind (and temporary) passion, when love marriages fail. Sane, sensible love marriages last a lifetime. Love is all about willing to change for another person. Love is when the other person brings out the best qualities in you. Love is when you care for someone more than yourself. Love is knowing that someone makes you complete, and that someone is always there for you, whether physically near or not
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@cyrile07 (236)
• Philippines
4 May 07
for me, love cant be defined, you cant choose love i mean who to love and when to love.. love just comes and it will also go.. love is a never ending learning thing.. if couple are not satisfied with each other then maybe their love is not that deep and they dont love each other unconditionally...
@wonderful1 (2076)
• China
4 May 07
It is common for those couples who marry only for a marriage. Do you understand my words? When you get some years old (girl 22,boy 25),his /her parents will anxious about their child's marriage. If you find your lover, they will ask you to marry quickly.If you have no bf/gf, they wiil introduce someone to their child, then they will be in a marriage in a year or so.Frankly, they dont know each other very well. Sometimes they meet only several times before they get married. So, that's why not they satisfied for each other?
• India
4 May 07
love is the condition, when the mind is out of condition..... and who said after marriage they are not satisfied?.....u may be talking about a very few people who have different priorities in life and for whom family comes last..but for majority family is first, than other things.....so man dont say this....u need to sacrifice and compromise on some things. thats love....spending time with wife is more important than a friends or watching football/cricket match.......so give your spouse valuable and quality time and see that u both will be saitsfied in no time.......
• India
4 May 07
hello friends i dont know about what is love but only i say is that after love marriage most of person are satisfied whith their life if they make a good understanding best of luck
@akinad (449)
• Philippines
4 May 07
i believe that love is true if and only if a person has accepted his/her partner completely..all of their positive and especially their flaws...they are trying to look for something that their partner doesn't have and they end up not being satisfied with each other..i guess some of them are only in the stage of adjustments..but we should know that when you agreed to marry a person,you willingly accept him/her as a whole person..all of it!!so we better be ready in all aspects when we're considering marriage..
@fazelath (1182)
• India
4 May 07
love is an emotion from inside u for a person,before marriage both the partners reveal only their positive side and after marriage the negative side,this is one of the biggest reason i think