i am now hating a close friend of mine...how to convey it to him?
May 4, 2007 4:02am CST
I have a very close friend. he had deceived me in a very significant matter and i got extremely frustrated. he doesn't know that, i know that he had deceived me....(i hope that u got me) he still comes to my house...meets me in college...asks me for help...plays with me and ridicules me of everything. Now i hate him soo much. I don't wanna talk to him or even see him. but he doesn't that and encounters me daily. its really difficult inside to have him around me as it reminds me of his culpability. have u ever undergone such situation? how to convey him that i detest him so much? plz help me
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4 May 07
You need to come right out and tell him that you do not like what he did (and be clear about it. I don't know what it is, and I'm not asking because it's none of my business, but you know what it is so tell im you didn't like when he did that). Also tell him you don't like the way he is treating you now, and if you don't want him to come around to see you anymore, tell him that, tell him honestly, and tell him why!!!!
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4 May 07
definatly! be perfectly plain about what he did and how you feel about him now. dont beat around the bush, make sure that he fully realizes the situation. if what he did has caused you to change your feelings about him so drastically then you're better off without him as a friend.