What do you do if you have PROBLEMS?

problems - are you a problematic person? how do you deal with it?
@joycer (498)
Sri Lanka
May 4, 2007 4:03am CST
If you have problems, do you prefer to be alone. Do you confide to your friends, partners? Do you ask for advice like here in mylot? Do you go out to forget it? Do you try to resolve it by yourself?
7 responses
@zjenikka (292)
• Philippines
4 May 07
I pray very hard and always positive that God will help me..
@joycer (498)
• Sri Lanka
4 May 07
GOD is always there to help us. Thanks!
@andak2007 (3229)
• Philippines
4 May 07
I am a very quite person and i don't tend to talk too much of my problems to other people, to my family or to my husband. But then i learned through years of experience that whenever i have problems i get so miserable that it takes my energy and could not function well throughout the day. What i do now is talk it out to my friends and i don't keep it to myself anymore, in this way i feel lighter at least it is not a burden anymore and in my quite moments i pray for it to be solved. Mylot community is one avenue for me to ease out my problems..thanks guys.
@joycer (498)
• Sri Lanka
4 May 07
Thank you for the response.
• India
4 May 07
problems are integral part of ones life...... sometimes i confide into others while sometimesi do try to resolve them myselves actually it depends on the severity of the prob n may be its consequences also............... bt always feel that its better to let it out than eep it linger inside urself!!!!
@joycer (498)
• Sri Lanka
4 May 07
Yes, I agree with that it's better to let it out. Thank you.
@wolves69 (755)
• United States
4 May 07
I was an only child, so for me to confide in someone takes too much out of me, so I prefer to work out the problem by myself. Only some of my closest friends and wife will I confide in with a problem, then I'm selective since I don't want someone to worry with me or cause them to be upset. Overall though, my problems are very minor in comparison so there's nothing to get really wrapped up about.
@joycer (498)
• Sri Lanka
4 May 07
thank you for your response.
@fazelath (1174)
• India
4 May 07
if i have problems i prefer to be alone and sort out on my own,
@joycer (498)
• Sri Lanka
4 May 07
Thank you for your response!
• China
4 May 07
I always resolve it by myself.
@joycer (498)
• Sri Lanka
4 May 07
Thanks yangqinjia for the response.
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
4 May 07
Most of the times, I prefer being alone. But if matters gets into worse, I seek my friends' company. But, I don't easily tell them what's bugging me, as I like to share it just to a few. For me, it is still much better tell someone whom I really trust, to which I know can help me understand more what I'm going through.