Does ur partner gives you an equal importance while decision making ??

India
May 4, 2007 6:54am CST
I'm a married women.My hubby never ask for anything before buying...not even if it is related to me.Although his choice is excellent but it makes me always sad.what about you people?do u ask for ur partner's advice or choice before buying anything...
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@magikrose (5429)
• United States
4 May 07
There are timers that I wish my husband had consulted me when he has made a decission but the thing is when it is a huge decission like a job change or purchasing something huge like a car he will talk to me about what I want and we will come to an agreement.
• India
4 May 07
thats gud...this is the basic demand of a relationship, but donn know why he not asked me ?
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@KissThis (3003)
• United States
4 May 07
Have you asked him why he doesn't ask for your opinion first? He might be assuming that you like it when he does these things.
@KissThis (3003)
• United States
4 May 07
There are some items that we don't discuss before purchasing. Major items that we are going to spend alot of money on we do discuss first because it affects us both. My partner doesn't but any of my personal items for me nor I do this for him. We have different tastes.
• India
4 May 07
that too i want him to do, he always buy precious gift for me but i dont feel happy, as i should have to b.sometime this make him annoyed too.But how i tell him what's in my mind...
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
4 May 07
Well sometimes it feels good your hubby ask your opinion oneverything... its because you would feel more a partner than just a wife... Me and my husband before doing anything we always talk before making any kind of decision... in that way we both feel that our opinion is important to each other...
@rodeotexas (1153)
• United States
4 May 07
I usually tell him I am about to get this or that or that I'm thinking of getting something. If he doesn't think it's a smart deal to get it then he tells me how he feels about it. The same goes the other way around. If he wants something or is going to get it he always talks to me about it first. It makes less stupid arguements.
• India
4 May 07
he hardly ask for anything but always want me to do anything with his concern only...
@fazelath (1174)
• India
4 May 07
he doesnt take any decisions with out consulting me,iam his better half,