Why does romantic relationships has to end...?

Philippines
May 4, 2007 7:05am CST
many people have gone to different relationship.. but have you ever thought of why it has to end? why can't it just be there and won't end?
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4 responses
@marababe (2503)
• Philippines
4 May 07
I used to wonder why romantic relationships has to end when mine just did. I used to cry myslef to sleep every single night and then suddenly I just stopped. I lived my life everyday trying very hard to get over it and accept the fact that it already is the end of the relationship. The night that I stopped crying was the night I realized that relationships end because it has to end. It's not working and it's not worth fixing anymore. Often times relatioships end because one or both of those who are involved has already fallen out of love with each other or sometimes they already found another partner who they think is the best for them. Come to think of it, will you still try to work things out if this is already the problem? Some would probably say yes but others just let go.
• Philippines
5 May 07
good point in that. For me i believe in the saying that a relationship that has ended is better left broken like a broken mirror because if tried to be fixed it will just hurt more than ever.
• India
4 May 07
love relationships have to end some day. since you love someone does not mean that you have to live your whole life with your lover. these relationships look very loving and cosy at first but soon after problems start to arise. hence they never last long.
• Philippines
5 May 07
would all relationship end to that? at some point in time love turns to lust but then again there are some that truly last and that's very admiring right? =)
@rhinoboy (2129)
4 May 07
I think people expect the magical feelings you get at the beginning of a relationship to last forever and move to someone new when they wear off. The sad thing is that these people don't realise the beauty of a long relationship or marriage. I don't think that you get that same feeling, more that you get a little happiness and support every day.
• Philippines
4 May 07
i agree. Thanks for sharing
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
4 May 07
Well I guess its just that some relationship...whether we like it or not doesnt meant to be... If you both did your best to make things work between you and still nothing happens...and you find yourself drifting apart from each other then you know that you're not meant to be...and the best thing that you could do is to charge evrything to experienc and move on with your life.. Someday someone who is mea for you will come along... You just have to wait...
• Philippines
5 May 07
Aww.. wow! yeah you have a good point in that! true enough that if things don't work just charge it to experience. Thanks for sharing you thoughts! mwah!