A Song Says Who Can I Turn To When Nobody Needs Me, Now Let's Reword It To Read
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
Philippines
May 4, 2007 7:57pm CST
...who can I turn to when I need somebody. There are times in our lives when we feel the need for someone to give us honest applicable advises to some bugging problems, when we feel the need for someone to help us out with some pressing financial difficulties, when we feel the dire need for someone to get and hold us up when we are down on moral and spiritual issues. From your part, who are these persons unto whom you can reliably turn to?
These persons whom I can count on in times of troubles are my mother and siblings, in addition to my children. They have always been there for me through good and hard times.
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@robert19ph (4577)
• Philippines
5 May 07
I always turn to my families in time of needs. If I feeling down and lonely, I have my wife and children to turn too. If I have problem with work, I talk to my wife and she gives me encouragement. They serve as my foundation, without them I will fall down like a building without good foundation. My mom is also a good source of help in times of need, even my brothers and sisters.
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
5 May 07
it is always good to know that we have some people who can help us when we are in crisis. it is good that you have a very supportive family and circle of relatives.
@ping_swift (156)
• China
5 May 07
i have to say i am a gug who is not good at showing my feeling to others, but in the deep of my heart i really wish there is someone who can listen to my heart. Most of the time i pour all of my feelings to my diary, it sounds silly, but that's true. don't laugh at me, i often do ridiculous things, i have friends but i dare not to tell them that i feel depressed or i meet trouble, i tend to show others that i have strength to deal with everything, but no one know i have my own weakness, i really feel sharp pain when i alone!
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
for you, then, the diary is what will receive about the problems that you are faced with. i believe that it is important for us to have a person confidante. once you can find this person who may be your mom or dad or a sibling, that sharp pain wchih you feel sometimes will be gone for good.
@cutiedhes (507)
• Philippines
5 May 07
Maybe for me when i am in times of need i can say that i can count on to with my friends and family. But sometimes I don't let my parents know that I have problems because i know that they are having also problems and i don't want them to get involved so if ever i can solve it by myself i tend not to really tell with anybody. I just tell it to my friends when i really handle the situation and i can't solve it by myself already.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
5 May 07
hello, cutiedhes, it is good to meet you here in this discussion. i advise you to talk to your parents about some problems which bother you. observe their reaction. if they are supportive, tell them that you appreciate it that they can be consulted with problems that you may have. establish rapport with them while you are still young.
if they do not care. you will have to exert extra effort. tell them that you need their advice when you are troubled by some problems. start now to open up to your parents so it will come easy among you to talk about your problems. you will find out later on that you need them by your side whenever you will problems as you get older. it will be good if you develop the habit now of being closer to your parents rather than your friends.
just in case you will need adult help someday, contact me anytime through the message board here in mylot.
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@ping_swift (156)
• China
5 May 07
i am not a person who is good at show my feelings to others, of course in the deep my heart i need someone to give me a big hug when i meet troubles or feel depressed. Most of the time i'd turn to my sister, she is one year old than me but seems much adult than me, she can give me comfort and i never hesitate to tell her all of my troulbes. I really appreciate god bring her to my life!
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
5 May 07
oh, that is very sweet. generally, girls get mature psychologically faster than men, that's why. i can see the reason for your being so thankful that you have such a very good and understanding sister. do not forget though that mothers love to comfort their children, too, in times of trouble.
