I might be pregnant...

@Marie2473 (8521)
Sweden
May 5, 2007 10:36am CST
I had no plans at all to put this here but I need to get it off my cheast. I have a great bf that I love. We live together and have a great relationship, however we both have decided that kids will have to wait since there are alot of things that we wanna fix before starting a family. Therefor I am on the deposhot and I have been for our entire relationship... The thing is that I think I might be pregnant. I have been once before and i remember the symptoms really well. I have bought a pregnancy-test just now, but i am scared to take it coz no matter how bad it might sound, I really dont wanna be pregnant right now. Sure it would not be a disaster and we would manage and love that child with our hearts and mind.. I am just scared right now....
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13 responses
@gabesmom (1246)
• United States
5 May 07
It's a normal reaction to be scared. But just take the test and find out. You might be stressing out for no reason. If you are pregnant, I'm sure you'll find a way to cope with the situation. It could be a blessing in disguise. I wasn't ready either when I found out I was pregnant. But things just seemed to fall into place when I decided to face it and did the best to handle the situation. I wouldn't trade the experience for the world. I have a beautiful and healthy 16-month old son.
@Marie2473 (8521)
• Sweden
5 May 07
Yeah if that is the case I am sure we will find a wayn to cope with it. I will take the test in a few hours when my bf gets back from work, he wanted to be here for that.
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@Foxxee (3653)
• United States
6 May 07
If you are pregnant, I'm sure everything will work out. Things will fall into place. Just be strong and try to stay stress free. Things happen for a reason my friend. This could be the best thing ever for you. Time will tell. Good luck on whatever life throws at you! :)
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@Marie2473 (8521)
• Sweden
6 May 07
Thanx alot.
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• United States
6 May 07
Hey, just calm down and take a deep breath, if you are you are. I was not ready when I found out I was pregnant with my son either, but being pregnant and watching my son grow has been the biggest blessing in my life. It seems that most people are unprepared when they find out that they are pregnant. I agree that everything happens for a reason, and if you are pregnant, you guys will work it out. Good luck!
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@Marie2473 (8521)
• Sweden
6 May 07
Thanx alot for that comment =)
• Australia
6 May 07
Hello Marie2473 You should be happy if you are pregnant. A lot of people want to pregnant but they can't. Why you scared? You talk to your boy friend about this and if he really love you he will support you. Good luck and God bless you
@Marie2473 (8521)
• Sweden
6 May 07
I know that he will support me whatever the result is.
• Malaysia
6 May 07
first of all.. there's nothing to be worried about.. it's a wonderful thing to have a child.. you get your own family now.. i agree that it doesn't go as you planned... but ..you have to remember a thing.. the child is innocent.. and you're the child mother.. if you're really pregnant.. then i suggest you not to do any abortion.. if that idea cross your mind.. forget it.. don't even think of doing that...i do think you can have a happy family in the future as long as you know what you're doing now.. and.. remember to use protection next time.. then you don't have to worry that much =)
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@Marie2473 (8521)
• Sweden
6 May 07
Oh no, abortion is not even an option for me. Even though pregnancy scares me I will not abort a child. I am in a stabil relationship and I am sure that we can make it if we just fight.
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@SpitFire179 (2536)
• Canada
5 May 07
hey hun, i know your scared, but you know you can do this. There's never a good time for kids, you say you want it when your more organized, you get organized and a problem comes along, you say you want to wait for the money to come along, then you have it and spend it, things like that... So in reality, there's never a good time. But babies come on their own time, and sometimes you just have to say oh boy i guess it's my time, and go with it. I know you can do it, don't forget to let us know, and hey, Congrats if you are hun.
@Marie2473 (8521)
• Sweden
6 May 07
I know that u are right, thanx for that =)
• United States
5 May 07
Hi Sweetie. I think that most of us moms have been where you are right now. Learning that a child is on the way and realizing the enormity of that is an humbling and life changing experience. I can only tell you to look around at those of us who did survive it -- not just survived, but thrived on it. The little one has a way of making its own space in your life and in your heart. Seeing my own children now grown with kids of their own is such a rewarding thing. It is not easy to be a mom and my kids said it wasn't easy to be a child either but working the problems out together is what helped us the most. Nobody knows how to be a mom. You learn as you go. If you need to talk, I'm here. Everyday as mom will be a new adventure.
@Marie2473 (8521)
• Sweden
5 May 07
Thanx alot. I am waiting for him (the bf) to come home from work, so that we ccan get the test done and overwith. I am scared - but also relived that he will be here with me.
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@sjohnson628 (3197)
• United States
5 May 07
Well I believe everything happens for a reason and if you are then God wanted you to be! It may not be what you want right now but I hope that everything works out for the best either way.
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@Marie2473 (8521)
• Sweden
5 May 07
Its not that i dont wants kids - I do. Just wish my life was more organized before it happend-
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@anaweya (41)
• Philippines
6 May 07
Take the pregnancy test, because the more you don't know, the more bothered and stressed you'll become.
@mari123 (1862)
• China
6 May 07
do you get married?and you both decided that when finish a lot of things,you decide to have a kid,but now you are pregnant,it is a bad thing to you,but i think you should change you decided,there is a kid in you family,give you a power to do you work,don,t worry,you will be as a mom.congratulation.
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@TerryZ (22083)
• United States
5 May 07
Stand up and face it be strong! You can do it. If your pregnant you never know you just might change your mind and be happy about it. Kids are a blessing from god. So go ahead go for it. And good luck to you really.
@claudia413 (4284)
• United States
6 May 07
You have every right to be scared, but don't stress yourself out. That's not good for you. There are plenty of mom/grandmoms here at myLot that will be here for help and to answer any questions you might have if you are pregnant. I'm one of them. :) Count your blessings that your bf will be by your side. Now I can't wait to hear the results. My prayers are with you, Marie.
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• Pakistan
5 May 07
Take a deep breath and relaxxxx....If u have a great relationship with your bf then you dont have to worry about anything.....CONGRATULATIONS.
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