help me i really want to have a star..

What you are asking peple to do is called "gaming the system" and is against the myLot rules. Someone has probably already reported you for it, but since you're new, I thought I would let you know why this discussion will probably be deleated later. You get your star after you post 100 times (new discussions or just responses). Having people respond to this still only gets you +1 in your tally fro the whole discussion.