I am pregnant....

@Marie2473 (8512)
Sweden
May 6, 2007 1:12pm CST
Ok, so we took the test yesterday and it turned out to be positive just like I suspected. I have felt that something is going on and even before taking the test I knew that it would be positive. I have to say that I am a bit shocked about my bf´s reaction. He has been saying that he is not ready for that yet, but yesterday he was so happy and he could not stop crying. This lifted a big stone of my chest, my biggest fear was his reactíon to it all, however when i think about how great of a guy he is I have no idea why I was worried... I am going to be a mom... That is scary but I am also very happy about it and I know that we will do the best we can and that we will love that baby unconditionally =) Tomorrow I am calling the doctor to make an appointment =)
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@taurean83 (505)
• United States
6 May 07
Wow..CONGRATULATIOnS...I am pregnant as well but I am almost there.My countdown has began i can have my baby anytime.But I am really happy for you.Its okay do not worry about his reaction He will get use to it and start taking your relationship more seriously.It takes little time to make himself comfortable with the situation.Try to be happy as much as you can.You are going to be a mother.And being mother is a blessing from God.So thanks him he is giving you such a nice sweet little present Believe me it is really different and special feeling no one could ever understand.If you want to ask any question You can ask me cause i been through everything recently may be i can help you out.Do not be scared stay calm and happy.Try to get an appointment from your doctor as soon as its possible..Have safe 9 months !!
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
7 May 07
I have called the doctor today and I have an appointment later this week for a first checkup. Thanx for commenting =)
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@claudia413 (4280)
• United States
6 May 07
Marie, I just posted on your first discussion about "maybe being pregnant". I'm behind both of you and know that you'll do the best you can and will love your child unconditionally. Congratulations to both of you, and just remember that many of the moms/grandmoms here at myLot will be here for you when you have any questions. Give your bf a big *hug* from me. I'm very glad you have such a good man in your life.
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
6 May 07
I will probably ask tons of questions later *lol* and I am glad to know that there will be alot of moms available to me =) I am blessed to have him in my life =)
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• United States
6 May 07
I am THRILLED for you, when I first got pregnant with my daughter it was not planned at all, in fact, I was separated from my husband when I found it, although it took a few months to get our act together she was a wonderful addition to our family and I feel blessed that she came, even when it was not planned.
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
7 May 07
I guess there are alot of children that are not planned but still deeply loved =)
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@cefaz_21 (2596)
• Philippines
7 May 07
you are so blessed to ahve such a wonderful boyfriend..what more? even blessed to have a baby! We've been praying for it since we got married. I just hope HE will bless us soon with our own bundle of joy :) Congratulations!
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
7 May 07
I will keep my fingers crossed that u 2 also will feel the happiness soon =)
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@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
7 May 07
Awww marie, your boyfriend is such a sweet guy. Its wonderful to know that you got yourself a great boyfriend. I know you're involved in a bad relationship before. I'm glad that you got pregnant with your preset boyfriend. Congratulations and keep us posted about your doctor appointment.
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
7 May 07
Yeah, he is the best. I am so glad that I have found him and that we are now taking it a big step further with a baby =)
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• Malaysia
7 May 07
hi marie. .i posted in your earlier discussion.. well.. it seems like this is a happy news.. and .. first of all.. i would like to congratulate you for being a mother.. i think you're having bigger responsibility now? i'm glad to hear that your boyfriend accept it.. and he will take his responsibility.. i'm also glad that he didn't leave you when you're pregnant.. which most of the guy did to their girlfriends when they're pregnant.. i think he's really a good guy.. he's a father now.. and he should know his responsibility from today onwards... do take care of your health and diet.. dont' smoke and drink okay? :)
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
7 May 07
I would never smoke or drink while beeing pregnant. This is yet another reason for me to stay smoke.free. i quit smoking in november 2006 but it is still hard at times, this will definately motivate me more.
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@RAMONES (537)
• Belgium
6 May 07
Well Marie, only 1 thing to say : congrats !!! I hope you have a good and comfortable pregnancy that will end up with a good and healthy baby for you and your boyfriend ! Congrats again...
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@jhoanee (598)
• Philippines
7 May 07
Congratulations!!! being pregnant was the most valuable thing to happen in every woman. thats the best gift a woman can give to her partner. good to know that your bf is also excited for the coming baby. i hope you will have a good and happy family sooner. when is the wedding? hope you will inform all of us, even if we cant attend at least in our thought we will wish you luck..LOL..Congrats again and godbless!
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
7 May 07
I will definately let you know when the wedding will be =) I am sure that there are alot of people that wants to e there in mind and spirit atleast =)
@jhoanee (598)
• Philippines
7 May 07
thanks in advance Marie. i wish you all the blessing and happiness in life. is this your fist baby? for sure you and you bf are too excited to have him/her in your hands sooner. wish i can have a baby too sooner. well by the way Advance Happy Mother's Day!!!
@munhozmib (3837)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
6 May 07
Congratulations, Miss Marie! But aren't you two married? Then what are you waiting for? Get married soon! Please, take good care of your baby. Remember to be patient at ALL times, do not let the nervousism come to your brain. I'm sure you'll do a good job as a mother! Good luck, and, once more, Congratulations!
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
7 May 07
No we are not married yet and there is plenty of time for that later on, right now we are happy just by living together
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@munhozmib (3837)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
7 May 07
Oh, okay, I understand. As long as there is love, then that's no problem. I just think that marriage will make both of you get closer.
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@amydawn11 (906)
• Canada
6 May 07
Well congratulations! It will be wonderful. Being pregnant is one of the greatest feelings in the world, so many milestones to look forward to. Make sure you write it all down, your feelings, what happened when and then later on you can put it into a scrapbook for your baby. I wish I had of written everything down :)
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
7 May 07
Thanx for the tip. I will try to write it all down to save for later in life =)
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@batpig (99)
• China
7 May 07
congratulations!!! lucky for your coming baby---will have dear parents like you two... lucky for you---get a trustworth bf and a cute coming baby lucky for your bf---will have a lovely baby and a nice mom of the baby hehehehe....congratulations again
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@joice86 (1078)
• Philippines
7 May 07
I am happy for you that you are having a baby already. And it's good that your boyfriend is willing to take the responsibility which a lot of men nowadays will not do that. I'm wishing you a happy family soon and raise your child in a nice way.Cheers!Goodluck on being a mum soon.
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@PsychoDude (2013)
• Netherlands
6 May 07
Well, I guess there's only one thing to say now then: CONGRATULATIONS! :)
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
6 May 07
Thanx alot ;-)
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@Rohit20 (327)
• India
7 May 07
THATS GREAT.FOLLOW TIPS TO HAVE A INTELLIGENT,WONDERFUL,AND NICE BABY--- DO DEEP BREATHING, EARLY, PRIOR TO SUNRISE IN GREENRY TO AVAIL SMARTEST DEVELOPMENT OF BABY IN EVERY TERM. DO AS ONLY MINUTES AS UR BODY ALLOWS,(like 2,3 or more minutes daily,increase frequency as per body demand) DONT OVER EXHERT,DO RELEXLINGLY. DONT HURRY WHILE DOING,BE STRESS FREE. U ARE BOUND TO HAVE FANTISTIC RESPONSE TO THIS FORMULA IF U FOLLOW WITHOUT MISSING DAY. A WELLWISHER.GOOD LUCK
@meljessxena (2315)
• Australia
7 May 07
aw congrats to you both... i know if i found out i was pregnant my partner would be jumping over the moon with joy, he a kid lover and he wants a tribe but yeah i had bad news for him and said well only 3 will do me lol, but we havent had any children yet. its good to know theres males out there loves children and dont run when finidng out there partner is pregnant, my friend found out she was pregnant a few months ago and the guy did a runner. so i worried oh no like what happens if mine did that. congrats again keep us up to date
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
7 May 07
I hope that u soon also will be pregnant and that u will have agreat family .. it is a nice feeling to be able to give ur partner something that special
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@suman76 (648)
• India
7 May 07
Congratualtion dear. But in India without marriage our child is not granted by the society. But anyway to become a mother it is really a good fortune for you
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
7 May 07
well here marriage is not a demand to have a baby. Aloit of people have babies without beeing married =) I am sure that we will get married one day, just not yet.
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• Philippines
7 May 07
Congratulations! I'm glad that the baby is welcome even if you and your partner is not planning about having one. Hope it's a healthy and easy pregnancy.
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
28 May 07
yup.there are things and events we don't really plan for... they just come and we just need to accept everything with open arms. and wish that things will go well.
@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
7 May 07
THis is womderful marie, i am so happy for you:) Of course he prbably did not think he is ready for this like all men, but once you told him, everything went away. I am so happy about his reaction and both of yours happiness:)
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
7 May 07
Yeah, i am so relived that he reacted this way =) Today he is even more happy and he wants to tell everyone but I have told him to wait, atleast until I get checked out by a doctor,
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@Gemmygirl1 (2867)
• Australia
6 May 07
Congratulations! Remember to take it kind of easy for the first trimester :) Just to be sure! It's also best to wait until after 12 weeks to start buying things! I'm so glad to hear that you're boyfriend was happy to hear you're pregnant, pregnancy does weird things to you & the ones around you, i noticed that myself! You're right, it is scary to begin with but everything comes pretty naturally once the baby has arrived. I'll give you 1 tip that my midwife told me, which was always my main concern - she said - remember, the baby isn't a porcelain doll, you wont break it! That helped a lot coz i realised i'd been so worried about breaking her & the midwife reassured me that even though they are so little, they aren't as fragile as you first expect them to be! Good luck!
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
7 May 07
Thanx for commenting. I know that it is "unsafe" the first 12 weeks so I will definately be careful...
@Sherry12 (2472)
• United States
7 May 07
Congratulations!! I've always known right away when I was pregnant too. It sounds like you are going to make great parents. Keep us updated all the way thru this, and the baby will have lots of internet aunts and uncles.
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