How would u feel?

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If your spouse cheated on you with another man/woman would you feel like they don't love you? Would you try to work it out or leave them immediately? Me personally I feel like when someone cheats on you there has to be a reason behind their actions. So depending on how long that I have been with that person and what we have established together I may try to come to a conclusion as to what made them do what they did. If it was something that I felt could be worked out then I would definitely try, but if it was something more like a second relationship on the side where he was with her the whole time he was with me I would forget about him and move on with my life and make myself understand that there is someone out there that won't do me like that. Would you cheat on them just because they did it to you? I know back when I was still dating alot of the guys that I knew said that if their girlfriend cheated on them then they would cheat on her. I think that is childish why would u want to go and open up another can of worms. I have come to an understanding that two wrongs don't make it right so I would do what my heart says to do because I know it would never lead me in the wrong direction.