would it be okay for a girl to tell a guy how she feels?

Philippines
May 7, 2007 7:33pm CST
hi i'm 23 years old.. i've been through a very difficult relationship and glad that i'm thru with it already.. it was 3yrs of a relationship.. now, i don't want to committ.. there's this guy that i really like.. now would it be okay for a gurl to court or somehow tell a guy how she feels about him?
3 responses
@mypeace (393)
• Nigeria
10 May 07
l see it as a cultural thing, How does your culture see it? In my culture its a man's duty to woo a girl, and if a girl takes up that, she's seen as being so cheap. However some educated and enlightened ones wont mind. But if you must tell him, tread softly, you shouldnt be too open. Once bitten twice shy.
• United States
8 May 07
There is certainly no good reason you can't 'court' a man! I think it would be refreshing for the man in question to know that you are honest and caring enough about him to let him know how you feel, without the usual coy games so many women play. Good Luck.
• Malaysia
8 May 07
hmm..i think it's perfectly okay! :D hehe...it's nothing wrong girl, telling people how you feel. depends on your guts and confidence, it might be embarrassing and it might not. who knows, it might turn out good and the feelings will be mutual. good luck!