Life is hard

I'm sorry to hear about all this, but I wanted to let you know that I had an abnormal pap before and then the next one was normal so hopefully it's the same for you. About the relationship, i'm going to think good vibes for you, maybe he does want to continue the relationship! As far as the ex I can relate. My ex during our divorce was very nasty and wanted to take our two kids, but I wouldn't let it happen, and although I have full custody of them and he only see's them once a year, I am sure later on he will try again, and I am sure he will lose again too. Big hugs to you! Keep your head up, things will get better!!!

((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))) I can't even imagine the stress you are under. Stop right now and change the way you are thinking about all of this. Begin to expect the best! What you think about you bring about. Remember that and say it to yourself several times a day. Take each of these things causing you stress and decide how you want them to play out. Then spend 5 minutes a day on each item..... hear/visualize the judge saying exactly what you want to hear him say. ........ hear your boyfriend saying exactily what you want the outcome to be. ........ hear the doctor telling you that you are cancer free. The power of positive thinking starts attracting everything into your life that will bring about the results you are looking for. If you have never seen the video, "The Secret", find a copy of it and watch it often. If you can not find it anywhere then you can find in on my website at the bottom of the 3rd page. I do not benefit from you visiting it and I promise I am not just trying to drive you to my website. www.carolcsmith.myarbonne.com Finally, (((((((((( hugs )))))))))) again. You will get through this and be a better person for it.

I'm a great believer that everything balances, and for every bad thing there's something good. So, think positive... want to win custody, want to be found negative with your Pap smear and think to a happy future with your boyfriend. Thus, the bad things you're experiencing right now, which are sapping your strength and will to fight, will have been balanced out by the good. All the very best of luck with these trials of life. Things WILL come good if you stay positive and fight for what you want. Brightest Blessings.

(((((scorpiobabes))))) I pray that everything goes in your favor during the custody hearing. If you don't get full custody at least try for half so that you will be able to see your daughter. Try your best to talk to the judge to see that as a mom, that she's your life and this will destroy you if your not able to see her. With your boyfriend, just lay everything on the table with him. If he's still not wanting to continue with the relationship then there isn't much you can do. But it will be sad to waste three years and 8 months of being together. Most of all if God forbid that you do have cervical cancer that it's caught early and can be taken care of. My sister had this and was able to go in and have the cancer cells frozen which killed the cancer cells. True friends wouldn't care if you had problems that went on for infinity, they would still be by your side no matter what. So keep your head up and know that a lot of people are thinking of you. Good Luck with all three matters and keep everyone updated on how everything goes.

As you know I had already PMd with you and you have my support all the way so I send you all the hugs I can give you.

Well, you got some (((((hugs))))) I cant begin to think that I know what your going through. You are right, bad things do seem to always come in threes. I'll keep you in my prayers. Terry

i'm sorry to hear that you had to go through so much... i agree that life is hard but rest assured that God will always be there for you to give you strength and comfort you... He will never leave you nor forsaken you... not even for a second... and i believe that all things that happen to you have a good purpose at the end... so just be patient and keep on praying to Him... i will pray for you as well... and i will give you a big hug now... hugggg..... take care and God Bless you...

Oh hun, I wish I could be there to give you a great big hug in person, but I am sending this little guy with great big cyber hugs. My thoughts are with you and I truly hope that all with be settled very soon.

Yeah life is hard, but come to think of it if our lives is not hard to live with? isn't boring? Life is getting hard as it helps us to be strong and learn how to live in this world so meaningful. Actually life wouldn't be that hard if we would not let it to be that hard, you know? Make your life so meaningful and useful to others and start to live your life up to the fullest. That's my goal. Have a nice day ahead from Francis.

Oh dear, I can find no words to comfort you... except that I'll be praying for you today, you've been through a lot lately (and I thought I have problems). Be strong hun, just trust God, He'll never forsake you... Here's a warm hug for you... uhhhmm! God bless!

It is the life, my friend, sometimes was happy sometimes not happy, I hoped you will get the strength to struggle in your life and it is hoped you would got happiness. Best regards

Thats a lot for one person to have to deal with at once. I hope all goes well for you, and everything works out in your favor, I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.

Try Meditation to get relieved,it really works.You'll much relieved from both physical and mental agony.

firstly, i am very sorry for your things! do not know why god gave you these things ,do now know what he wants to do ! then i think over it ! then i know the result ,maybe he just want to exam you ,to find whether you have a strong heart ,whether you have the ability to live ....and so on!and this bad things what happened in threes maybe are just a kidding ! and the final result is that eveything is well, and the weather is sunny ! believe yourself ,love you life ,you will succeed .and from this day i will pray for you every morning ! god bless you !

I can truly relate. I too feel like I have the worst luck.I have been through 2 custody battles with my 1st childs father in 5 years. He sued me once in 2002 and again last year while I was pregnant. I was pregnant by a guy who I really did not like had questions about his sexuality. I did not have a job my unemployment ran out everywhere I turned for help I was rejected my child's father already had shared custody of my daugther he decided to move out of state and instead of him giving me support he dumped my daugther on me and sued me for primary custody. I was stressing so bad I had no money my Attorney from 2002 withdrew me because I had no money to pay him. I was able to get an Attorny through an agency he was an excellent attorney Thank Goodness, My childs father had so much on me and I had nothing on him simply because I thaught he had moved on he had remarried had a new baby. We were cordual he would make agreements with me outside of the custody order and he went to the police and created police reports claiming I wasn't at the custody exchange location to pick up my child I did not know he was doing this until he sued me. I also had a bad papsmear last year for adnormal cancer causing cells, luckliy everything worked out for me the cells were gone after I gave birth to myy child and I went to in July and I won primary custody and he gets my daugther in the summer. I send you lots of hugs and prayers. Stay strong!

Keep your head up we all have Bad times. I have been waiting 2 years for ssi went to my hearing a couple of weeks ago now get a Letter saying that I have to go to another Doctor When I have 4 Doctors telling me and them That I can no longer Work. Duh. As for everything else going on I will Pray with you and also Good Luck Have a Great Day

the bad luck will be goen ,and good luck will be around you,i am also have a bad luck this days,yesterday my mobile telephone and burse was thieved by thief,so i can't contact with my friends,and today i am tumbled by a bike,and my shoulder pain so hard.

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Every day of our life,we all re face with alot of troubles ,trials etc. but one thing i want u to is, that troubles" re channels to ur success and the ability for u to conquer your troubles or hardiness make u outstanding in life. so u can't escape trouble or hard time they already, part of life. thanks.

everything happens for a reason. Be strong for your child and things will be okay. God wouldnt give you anything that you can't surpass. My prayers are with you.