How do you exhibit your anger? do you smash things around or you stay calm?
By Windrunner
@Windrunner (477)
Pakistan
May 9, 2007 2:30pm CST
How do you display your anger? by screaming yourself out of your senses or by remaining solid and calm? do you have a boiling temper or a calm influential one?
as for me i have a boiling temper, but i remain silent in times of anger or often make faces. sometimes i may upset my mood very much and yell at somebody.
but i dont understand what satisfaction do people get out of throwing things? how does it help?
3 responses
@shak143 (1280)
• India
10 May 07
Hi iam a shorttemper guy i remains clam and solid when iam anger.i try to control myself with out showing it one some one or domething.But some times i lost control i throws the things and usually i heart myself such that i can change my mind from thinking about the situation which makes me anger towards pain.
If reveal your anger on things your mind will get diverted to it and will be calm for a while.That's it...
@Windrunner (477)
• Pakistan
12 May 07
but u get calmed down only for the time being. the rest of the day is spoiled by that one moment which overcame your senses.
@camilletherese (151)
• Philippines
9 May 07
hmmm...me i just try to become as calm as i possibly can...though the anger would occasionaly get to me and, well, let's just say that you'd be a poor sap of a man after you try talking to me while i'm on one of my angry moments... i just really need to get out of the place where i became angry in...go find a more solitary and peaceful place...and smoke my way out of my anger...that way, i'll forget about my anger and instead focus on trying to remember how many cigs i've lit up..hey...it really wokrs...forme at least...
@Windrunner (477)
• Pakistan
10 May 07
not a really good substitute! there may be other ways to cool down your anger.
@Indiffer (287)
• Norway
9 May 07
When we were younger, my husband used to smash things when angry. He doesnt now.Hes getting old - hehe.
Smacking things helped him to not smacking people. You have to take it out but to not hurt anyone you throw things around instead.
I think anger depends much on situation. At work you have to stay calm no matter what. At home you might be more yourself, yelling and arguing, i guess.
And maybe you wouldnt yell at your child driving you insane would you? Or the elder one that needs your care?
@Windrunner (477)
• Pakistan
10 May 07
yes you cant yell at children, or they;ll start getting upset with your behavior and will eventually leave you to yourself.
