If you think your spouse cheated on you.

United States
May 10, 2007 1:28pm CST
What would you do if you though your spouse cheated on you but you couldn't prove it. I was unsure as to what to say to my girlfriend when she told me she though her husband cheated on her but she couldn't prove it. He's not going to confess. Do you just forgive. It would eat me up alive inside not knowing.
2 responses
@thai11 (239)
• United States
10 May 07
Wow..that sounds like such a tough spot to be in..I would probably tell my friend to try and get proof or to believe what he says if he claims he didn't do anything!! Anything else she will be miserable and always wondering "what if"!! It would kill me to not know as well. I was in a relationship where my ex cheated on me and I could feel he had cheated on, long before he told me!! Women's intuition is a powerful thing so tell your friend to trust in hers, what ever road she chooses- Best of luck:)
• United States
15 May 07
It's just scary not knowing. I think I would rather know than not atleast I would know were I stood.
@Suzanneo (40)
• United States
10 May 07
I probably would check phone records, receipts etc.. and pay attention to details.