Unseen Love

United States
May 10, 2007 3:26pm CST
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never seen? I want to hear your thoughts!
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@munhozmib (3837)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
11 May 07
In my opinion, no. How will you fall in love with someone you don't even know? You may feel attracted to that person, but that's just because of what the person is outside when you see her for the first time. Or, if you only chat with her by Internet, you may feel attracted to her way of speaking. Those are my thoughts. So, in my opinion, it is not possible.
@munhozmib (3837)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
14 May 07
Incredible! Anyway, I don't think I'll ever fall in love by phone. Sounds strange. Imagine, you don't know the person... When you see the person, the person is shy and ugly. What would you do? Congratulations, though!
• United States
11 May 07
i thought that way at first too. However, by talking to him only, I get a chance to know him on a more personal level. There's no games, or crap involved. It's just us. We get more personal time alone, than other couples. We talk privately, we giggle, we laugh, we talk about our concerns 9and their has been BIG concerns!), and get tell each other things that we wouldn't tell each other face to face. You know, it is true that you would tell a stranger your most deepest secret. And I have. Now he is my husband. Now we don't have any secrets between us.
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• United States
10 May 07
Well i never say that anything isn't possible so there may be a chance. I found this to be a very interesting question. I wish you the best of luck!!
• United States
11 May 07
Awww, thank you. That means alot! Kiss Kiss.
@innechen (1318)
• Indonesia
11 May 07
why not, its happens sometimes.i introduced my friend to a guy (he is my friend too) they never met before so i only gave him her phone number.then they start to talk on phone everyday and send sms.well...seems like love grows before they meet, they even already show their attention to each other.then finally they decided to meet and the relationship continue till they now married and get divorce now
@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
10 May 07
I met my now husband on line and I also knew I loved him before I saw him we chatted for a long time before I even saw a pic of him,and I just fell in love with his words and kind spirit i knew he was someone I could love. So yes you can fall in love with some one you have never seen.
• United States
11 May 07
I know what you mean. My husband had me at his words too. Everything he said was so captivating! Maybe I fell in love with his words first. LOL
@Kythe42 (1412)
• United States
10 May 07
Do you just mean never met in person, or never even seen a picture of them. I met my S/O online and I did fall in love with him before we ever met in person though I had seen pictures of him and even did a few video chats with him. It's a long distance relationship and it's hard, but we have such a strong spiritual connection that we stay together.
• United States
11 May 07
I totally agree. I had been friend with my love on line. Now we are in love with one another. It is an awesome love!
@cassiezm (89)
• Philippines
11 May 07
I' not really sure with this..But when my boyfriend and I haven't seen each other yet, we fell in love even though we have not yet seen each other personally. I fell in love with him even if I haven't seen his face, his eyes and everything about him. At leat we had fell in love with each other without any physical attcractions at first. Because physical attractions does not last and eventually it fades away. But when we had seen each other for the first time, we knew the reason why we love each other.The reason that we love each other is because we look in each others hearts not physically...
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
10 May 07
for me love is a growing process by which two people share themselves, their very essence, the things that makes us people. To achieve this with someone you dont know i think is impossible blessed be
@batpig (99)
• China
11 May 07
i dont know if it can happen to others,but i am sure i wont fall in love with someone i dont meet before.i need the actual feeling and only the close contact can make me to have feelings. maybe i will be attracted by the beautiful words from someone i dont meet before,but still a strip of uncertainty will be inside my heart!this uncertainty will stop my feeling towards others.